How to Change Your Name After Marriage

How to Change Your Name After Marriage

Changing your name after marriage is a big decision, whether taking your spouse's last name, hyphenating, or creating a new last name. Yet it needn't overwhelm you.

This quick and easy guide will show you how to complete the marriage name change process with precision and in proper order. Get ready to change your last name with confidence.

Authorization to legally change your name

Legally changing your name after your wedding is a hefty task. So focus on bite-sized chunks. Begin with a new social security card. Then a new driver's license. Persist.

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There are three prevalent name change events:

  1. Marriage
  2. Divorce
  3. Court order

And each has a related legal name change document:

  1. Marriage certificate
  2. Divorce decree (with restored name order)
  3. Court order (with name change order)

The name change process using your marriage certificate works the same when using a decree of dissolution or judge's order, which decrees or orders your name changed.

Civil union and domestic partnership name changes use the same process as changing your name by marriage—using their comparable certified documents.

Name change through the marriage process

If your marriage certificate says your new last name will be XYZ, you may only shift to that name. Otherwise, pick whichever last name you decide works best, within acceptable limits.

Newlyweds celebrate wedding ceremony

Within acceptable limits refers to default social security rules for surnames:

You may also replace your middle name with your maiden name (or last name at birth), alongside changing your last name. Or add a second name to your middle name.

Consider our convenient online name change kit, designed to save you time and effort alongside this comprehensive guide.

Is name change after marriage automatic?

Your last name won't automatically change after you get married. There are legal steps and forms to fill out. You must alert multiple government offices to make it official.

Man stressed over assumed automatic name change bomb

Likewise, your name won't revert or switch by itself after divorcing or completing a formal name change petition. You must put in the work.

So if you plan to change your name after marriage, get ready to review your name change checklist, sorted by priority.

The name change process begins now…

1. Get your marriage certificate

The first step to changing your last name is to get your marriage certificate. This is one of your most important legal name change documents. You can't move forward without it.

Woman signing marriage certificate with oversized pen

You can use an original or certified copy of your marriage certificate to change your name after marriage among government agencies.

But you must apply for a marriage license to get a certificate. For New England states, NY, and NJ, visit your city or town clerk. Others, see your county clerk's office or county courthouse.

Either you or your officiant must return your completed license to the issuing office for recording after your wedding. Get your certified certificates from the same office.

Marriage license vs. marriage certificate

People often mix up the marriage license and certificate, but there's a key difference:

  • Your marriage license allows you to marry.
  • Your marriage certificate proves your marriage occurred.

Depending on where you live, your marriage license and certificate may be the same document; only the status shifts after your ceremony takes place.

Get your marriage certificate as soon as possible

You can get certified copies of your marriage certificate delivered straight to your mailbox; just preorder copies when you apply to get married. Yet a quicker way exists…

Man crossing finish line

Many couples assume only their officiant may send back their completed marriage license. Not true. You may return your own marriage license after getting married.

You may obtain your marriage certificate fastest if you:

  1. Return your marriage license in person.
  2. Get certified copies before leaving the clerk's office.

One certified copy of your marriage certificate will cost between $5 and $25. Fees each state levies vary. Yet most hover around $20. (They'll often discount extra copies.)

Consider getting at least three certified copies of your marriage certificate. This saves time when changing your name across multiple entities.

2. Update your social security card

Your name change becomes legal once you update the name on your social security card through the Social Security Administration (SSA).

Woman updating her SSA profile

You can view our extensive social security name change guide, which covers filing options, identity documents, name change possibilities, turnaround times, etc.

In short, submit SS-5 by mail or in person with a certified copy of your marriage certificate, and proof of ID and citizenship (e.g., birth certificate). Your new card will arrive in 7–14 days.

Your local social security office will mail back any ID, certificate, or personal document included with your paperwork. They'll get delivered before your new card.

Your updated social security card will print your new full name, but your social security number (SSN) won't change.

3. Update the IRS

The SSA will alert the Internal Revenue Service (IRS) of your name change. File your tax returns in your new last name to avoid delays in processing and refunds.

Businesswoman on computer updating IRS about address and name change for tax return

You must mail IRS Form 8822 if your "home mailing address" changed. Note prior names for both you and your spouse. You needn't attach proof of name change or photo ID.

4. Update your driver's license or state ID card

Note: We will use DMV as shorthand for your state's Department of Motor Vehicles office. State acronyms vary—e.g., BMV, RMV, SOS—but their offices are equivalent.

Woman celebrating her updated driver's license

You must first update your name with the Social Security Administration before changing your name on your driver's license, REAL ID, state-issued ID card, or learner's permit.

You can't change the name on your driver's license by mail or online. Complete this corrective renewal at your local DMV. And factor in potential name change deadlines.

Come prepared to take a new photo and pay a renewal or reissue fee. Bring cash or a personal check. Offices accepting credit card payments may add a surcharge.

On May 3, 2023 May 7, 2025, the oft-delayed REAL ID deadline goes into effect, requiring adult air travelers to own a REAL ID compliant driver's license, enhanced driver's license (EDL), or other valid ID to fly within the United States.

Documents needed by the DMV

Bring your current driver's license, a certified copy of your marriage certificate, and proof of residence (e.g., utility bill, bank statement) to change your name with the DMV.

You will need to show proof of your full social security number (SSN), such as a:

  • Social security card
  • Pay stub
  • W-2, or
  • 1099 tax form

The DMV won't keep your certificate, but may retain your old driver's license and issue you a temporary ID. Your new license will arrive by mail.

SSA to DMV verification (mind the 24 hour gap)

The DMV will confirm your name change with the SSA Online Verification System (OVS) by querying their database. This search requires your SSN.

Wait at least 24 hours between your social security card and driver's license name change. This gives the SSA database time to propagate new data before getting queried.

Woman asleep while waiting at the DMV

The new name on your new driver's license must agree with your SSA "Numident" record. This explains why your SS name change precedes your DL name change.

So with proper timing, you can visit the DMV to update your license without waiting for your new social security card to arrive.

5. Update your car title and registration

You must update your vehicle title and registration when your name or address changes. You can often complete this process online, by mail, or by filling out papers at the DMV.

Man visiting DMV to update car title and registration

The procedure for car title and registration changes varies across states. You should consult your state's DMV website for precise details.

At a minimum, you must hand in your current vehicle title. Both your new title and registration should arrive by mail within a few weeks. Your title should arrive last.

Revising your vehicle title and registration isn't a DMV role in every state. Most states assign this task to an approved license plate agency.

6. Update your passport

You may change the name on your U.S. passport with the U.S. Department of State before, during, or after changing your name with the SSA or DMV.

Man carrying huge passport

There are two feasible passport name change scenarios:

  1. Change the name on your current passport.
  2. Get your first ever passport under your married name.

Choosing the right passport application

There are three core passport forms (DS-5504, DS-82, and DS-11) and one conditional (DS-62). The upcoming three subsections will explain which one you should fill out.

But, first, three vital notes…

If you have a passport, forfeit it with your completed form. You'll get your old passport back by mail, albeit voided with a hole punched through or stamped "cancelled" inside.

For all filings, attach a certified copy of your marriage certificate as proof of name change, requisite payments, and a recent 2-by-2-inch color headshot.

Pay by check or money order, payable to "U.S. Department of State." If you're outside the U.S or Canada, file at a U.S. embassy or consulate; both accept credit cards and exact cash.

Now, onto the forms…

Which date was your passport issued?

A. Issued less than one year ago

Mail DS-5504 with your current passport if it got issued less than a year ago. This application offers filings free of cost. There is no book, card, or processing fee.

B. Issued between one and 15 years ago

Mail DS-82 with your current passport if it was issued between one and 15 years ago. The passport book costs $130, with an optional passport card available for an extra $30.

C: Issued over 15 years ago, lost, destroyed, or first-time

Submit DS-11 in person—with photo ID and proof of U.S. citizenship—at an acceptance facility, such as the thousands of designated USPS offices, if your passport is:

  • Over 15 years old
  • Lost
  • Stolen
  • Damaged, or
  • Nonexistent, since this will be your first passport

You may get a passport book for $130, passport card for $30, or both for $160. The acceptance facility will charge a $35 execution fee to process your application.

You must attach DS-64 to DS-11 if your passport becomes lost, stolen, or damaged. This combo is required regardless of your passport age.

Passport processing times

Routine passport turnaround time is 7 to 10 weeks (from application received to delivery by USPS Priority Mail). Adding $60 for expedited processing shortens the wait to 4 to 6 weeks.

Woman holding hourglass distressed over application processing time

If you need to travel right away, urgent or emergency travel options exist:

  • Urgent means within 14 calendar days.
  • Emergency means within 72 hours.

Traveling under your maiden or married name

The name on your passport and airline tickets must match when you leave the United States. This detail may get overlooked during your wedding and honeymoon rush.

Mock airline ticket
Honeymoon primed: matching names on passport and reservations.

If you can't get a new passport before departing, book your plane tickets under your maiden name. You can update the name on your passport when you get back.

If you can't alter your boarding pass to match your new passport, show the airline your marriage certificate linking your old and new name.

7. Update your bank accounts

Steps to update your legal name differ across financial institutions. Your bank or credit union may let you change your name online, by mail, by phone, or in-person visit.

Woman carrying huge piggy bank

Show proof of name change, such as a marriage certificate, or a new social security card, driver's license, passport, military ID card, or government-issued photo ID card.

It's possible your bank may request both a marriage certificate and updated photo ID showing your married name.

Expect to provide at least your old and updated name, account numbers, and IRS W-9 Tax Identification Number (TIN).

Your TIN is a:

  • Social security number (SSN)
  • Individual tax identification number (ITIN), or
  • Employer identification number (EIN) (for businesses)

When updating your name at a local bank branch, bring certified or original documents. Photocopies or scans are often fine for mailed or uploaded online filings.

Specify if you need new:

  • Checks
  • Deposit slips
  • Credit and debit cards
Mock checkbook and debit card
Order new checkbooks and debit cards in your married name.

You may order new checks any time online from either your bank's website or a third-party check provider. (This could serve as your first official name conversion.)

If you ask, various banks may let you keep cashing, depositing, and writing checks in your old and new name. They may have you sign two signature cards.

8. Update your credit cards

You should update the name on your credit cards to match the name on your social security record. Your marriage certificate can serve as proof of name change.

Woman carrying huge credit card

You may make account changes by calling the customer service number on the back of your credit card or visiting a nearby branch location. (Assuming one exists.)

The process varies per creditor. Some allow you to change your name by phone, mail, fax, online chat, official mobile app, or online account area.

Various credit card issuers may allow the display name on your card to differ from your new legal name. For example, you could continue using your maiden name.

The three credit bureaus—Equifax, Experian, and TransUnion—will automatically update the name on your credit report once you change your name on one or more credit cards. (No need for you to contact them.)

9. Update your employers and HR

Notify the Human Resources (HR) department where you work that you've legally changed your name. HR must update payroll records to equal what the SSA has on file.

Woman carrying huge paycheck and man holding huge ink pen

The IRS requires your name match between your social security card, W-2, and W-4, for payroll taxes. Your marital status may impact employer-based health insurance and W-4 allowances.

Inform HR if you have opened a new joint bank account with your spouse to ensure direct depositing of your wages proceed without interruption.

Ask your employer for a corrected W-2 if your issued W-2 shows your old name. If your current or former employer doesn't comply, the IRS may intervene on your behalf.

10. Update your name with the USPS

You should alert the United States Postal Service (USPS) if you have changed both your name and mailing address to set up and schedule mail forwarding.

Woman mailing huge envelope

Filing separate requests in your maiden name and married name is key. (Plus every other prior name you've held.) See our USPS name change guide for instructions.

11. Update your voter registration information

You may change the name on your voter registration by mail using the downloadable federal National Mail Voter Registration Form, which supports 21 languages.

Woman updating her voter record

U.S. citizens living in the country (or with a U.S. address) may use this document in four ways:

  1. Register to vote.
  2. Report a name change.
  3. Report an address change.
  4. Register with a political party.

Caveats: This document will neither work in Wyoming nor North Dakota; WY law blocks it, while ND doesn't register voters.

12. Update or notify everyone else

After you change your last name on legal documents, deal with these key leftovers:

  • Business documents (e.g., DBA, LLC, corporate charter)
  • Business relationships (e.g., attorneys, accountants)
  • Clients, customers, and vendors
  • Doctors, dentists, pharmacists, and therapists
  • Email accounts (name and signature) (e.g., Gmail, Apple Mail, Outlook)
  • Gym memberships
  • Insurance policies (e.g., auto, home, dental, life, health)
  • Mailbox services (e.g., PO Box, PMB)
  • Mobile apps (bio and profile name)
  • Mortgages, deeds, and leases
  • Payment services (e.g., PayPal, Venmo, Zelle)
  • Professional licenses and degrees
  • Retirement and investment accounts (e.g., 401(k), IRA)
  • Ridesharing profiles (drivers and riders) (e.g., Uber, Lyft)
  • Schools (yours and your children's)
  • Social media accounts (e.g., Facebook, Instagram, TikTok)
  • Streaming profiles (e.g., Netflix, Amazon Prime)
  • Trusted Traveler Programs (e.g., Global Entry, TSA PreCheck, SENTRI, NEXUS)
  • Utility companies (e.g., gas, electric, water, phone, cable, Internet)
  • Wholesale retailers (e.g., Sam's Club, Costco, BJ's)
  • Wills and powers of attorney (POA)

Create a list of who else to update about your new last name by reviewing your email inbox and sent folder, phone contacts, and postal mail pile.

Conclusion

After getting married, many couples want to change their name. It's not as hard as you may think. Your marriage certificate is your name change checklist starting point.

Couple reviewing wedding checklist

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We hope this article helped you understand the steps needed to make your name change possible. If you have questions, ask them in the comments section below.

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987 Comments

  1. I was married 6 years ago and never went through the name change. I noticed that on my marriage certificate, it was listed as my first name, my husband's last name was put into the middle name box (under my name) and my maiden name was left as my last name. We were married in CA. Can I still change my last name to my husband's name if I get a certified copy of my marriage certificate? My husband's name is correct and my name is correctly listed above. I am not sure why it was listed that way on the bottom and never paid much attention to it. I would really like to change it to his name after 6 years…thank you in advnace

        • Can i go to the clerk and petition that it was an error?

          Although California provides an affidavit to amend a marriage record form, it's only for typos or to add missing info to blank areas. It's not to change any part of any name.

  2. Hello í got married last month and í didnt realise that í had put my maiden name on my marriage license. How can í get my name changed to my huabands last name

    • Hi Crystal. It depends on the state. Not every state has a spot on the license where you specify your new name, so it wouldn't matter. It's difficult to say without knowing the state you live in.

  3. Hi I got married 2 years back and didn't change my name then. I want to change it now starting first with SSN. My marriage certificate has my maiden name on it. I want to know if that would be enough to change my name legally or do I need additional proof stating my new and old name like it's mentioned on social security website. I reside in Illinois.

    • Hi Crystal. I don't believe Illinois has a spot on the license to specify a new name, so you should be able to use your marriage certificate as-is.

  4. I just got married in UT and I am starting this process. After having my certified copy of my marriage license, I know I need to go to the Social Security Administration first. Once I have provided them with what they need and it is being processed, can I go to the Driver's License Division to get my Driver's License changed or do I need to wait to receive my new SS Card with my married name before I can move forward? Will a certified copy of the marriage license with my original SS card and ID suffice for changing my name with the DLD?

    • Hi Kylee. It's a good idea to wait about 24 hours between SSN and DLD to allow time for the prior's database to refresh, assuming the DLD will query it for a name match/mismatch.

  5. I've read some previous replies but I'm still not sure what to do. I hyphenated my last-his last name. I haven't changed any documents with my hyphenated name. Now I want to take his last name only. What route do I go from here? Our certificate says I want the hyphen. Now I don't. Just want his. Just repeated that. Sorry. What now??

    • Hi Jennifer. In many cases, you'll be able to still use your marriage certificate as-is to change it to the non-hyphenated version. Some states (or some state DMV's) might be more stringent, and may only change it to what's specified on the certificate. It can vary by office or the clerk's interpretation.

  6. Hello,I live in California, got married in Las Vegas 9 years ago I am trying to take my husbands last name.At the court house when we filled out our marriage license application I didn't put my name as it would be with his,it's still under my maiden name.Would there be a problem changing it here in California or would our marriage license would be good enough?

  7. Hi,

    My husband and I married in Colorado 5 years ago, at the time I kept & signed as my maiden name. I am finally looking into the process of changing my last name to his. Is the marriage certificate all that I need to begin that process? Also I need to change this on my green-card as well, I am not an American citizen.

  8. Hello I want to keep my last name as well as adding my husband last name but I did not put my last name when I applied for my marriage license..how can I get my last name as well as his last name on my marriage certificate?

    • Hi Rose. You can contact your town/county recorder's office to request an amendment, but they don't typically allow changes unless they're errors.

  9. Hi,

    My marriage licence has a hyphenated name but I wanted to have 2 last names and not keep the hyphen. Is this possible? I was married in Ca 9-4-16 and was told I was not able to have 2 last names but I know people who have 2 last names.

    Licence has Molina-Hurlburt but I wanted Molina Hurlburt

    Thanks!!!!

    • Hi Krys. You can have a combined last name or hyphen, but not space. That would require a court petitioned name change.

  10. Hello, me and my fiance just applied for a marriage license in pottsville pa. We are from Philadelphia pa. When i applied i ask the clerk i want my last name on my license to be my fiance last name. She told me it won't be necessary because once I'm married i can bring the certified marriage certificate to the dmv and ssa to get a name change. I want to know will my name on the certificate have my fiance surname on it? Will it matter if it have my surname, and will i be able to use it to change it when i go to the dmv and ssa? Im very confused here. Please help.

    • I want to know will my name on the certificate have my fiance surname on it?

      No.

      Will it matter if it have my surname

      No, it's not important.

      and will i be able to use it to change it when i go to the dmv and ssa?

      Yes.

  11. Hello, I recently applied for a marriage license, and got married on Saturday. I would like to change my first name at the same time I change my last name. Do you know what my first step would be to do this?

    • Hi Alicia. First name changes aren't possible through marriage. You'll have to petition the court for that.

      • Hi Valera,

        My fiance wants to change her first name, in addition to picking my last name through marriage (which is happening in less than a month). I understand that first name changes aren't possible though marriage and she'll need to petition the court for that.

        In order to do it optimally, avoiding unnecessary delays and expenditures, we need to understand the following (at least):

        (1) can we change her last name through marriage and then, without changing SSC, driver's license and permanent resident card, petition the court to change the first name (and only after that change the SSC, DL and PRC, so they're not changed twice)?

        (2) or, should she just change both first and last names by court petition and not even mention the new last name in the marriage application?

        (3) something else?

        The trick is that court petition process will take a far longer time compared to our marriage timeframe.

        Any advice is greatly appreciated!
        Thanks,
        Max.

        • (1) can we change her last name through marriage and then, without changing SSC, driver's license and permanent resident card, petition the court to change the first name (and only after that change the SSC, DL and PRC, so they're not changed twice)?

          That would require changing it twice, which is the less practical option.

          (2) or, should she just change both first and last names by court petition and not even mention the new last name in the marriage application?

          By petitioning the court, she could change both first and last simultaneously. It wouldn't matter what's mentioned in the marriage application, as the court order would take precedence.

  12. Hi I have been divorced before and remarried but when I remarried I never changed my previous name on my license, with the IRS etc.. I have been filing taxes and using my previous husband's name it's even still on my social security card. I got married to the other husband after him and never used his last name on anything. Now I am a bout to divorce this current husband. My problem is I don't know what name to put on my divorce petition. Do I need to put whats on my driver's license which is the first husband or do I put my current's husband's name I'm about to divorce? Due to the fact they will want to see my Id and ask about the previous last name.

    • Do I need to put whats on my driver's license which is the first husband or do I put my current's husband's name I'm about to divorce?

      First husband's.

  13. I got married on January 20th, of this year. I would like to know if, I go to change my name right now, will the Virginia DMV change my name to my married name, with me using my marriage certificate? I wanted to get a Photo ID, because I wanted to go hunting with my husband. I can't go hunting with him, because I need a photo ID showing my married name. They've changed that. Now, I have my social security card, that still shows my maiden name. So, how could I go about changing my social security card and my name and get a photo ID? I believe I would need a photo ID of some sort to be able to change my social security card name. But, I would need my maiden name put on the photo ID to have my name changed to my married name wouldn't I? I'm very confused and I need some help figuring this stuff out. Please help me?

    • Hi Kelsey. Change your name with the SSA first, then DMV. Bring your marriage certificate to both. If you don't have any ID when going to SSA, they can accept alternative documents, such as military/school/employer/insurance card. Something that'll help identify you.

  14. We are both American Citizens and plan to get into a same-sex marriage in California. We want to create our new Middle Name by combining our pen names. Will it be allowed on the marriage license application?

      • If that's the case,
        Before we get married in California, is it okay to Petition Name Change (our Middle Names) at the Court and that We BOTH put the the new Middle Name we would like to use together? What's the best route just so we can have a new middle name that we can share as a couple?

        • Hi Bernard. Yes, that would work. The court order would be sufficient for you to change your name before marriage.

  15. I got married last week and on the marriage lisence I put my husband's name as my new surname. Can I ise a hyphenated version even if its not on the certificate. I live in NYC

  16. This is probably the dumbest question ever, but I have to ask beforehand. I just got married on Saturday and we received our marriage certificate in the mail today. I opted to change my name so I am filling out the paperwork for DMV and Social Security before I take the trip to the offices. I got all of the papers filled out and then got to the signature line. Do I sign my new married name or is it not official until I go through the Social Security change? I just don't know which name to sign on the social security paperwork.

  17. Hello Valera,

    I married 5 years ago in Hawaii and on my marriage certificate I claimed my maiden name. Now I would like to take my husband's last name for all legal documents. My question is do I need to file a petition for a name change or am I able show my marriage certificate to the SS office to legally change my last name?

    Thank you so much!

  18. Hi,
    I recently got married and want to mail all my documents to the ss office (in IL). Its says it needs me drivers license, can I send a photocopy of it in? Thank you!
    From, Katherine

  19. Hi – we could really use some help. My wife and I were married in Indiana a little over 10 years ago. We she took my last name but we never changed it with Social Security. Until 8/13/16 she had a valid drivers license in her new married name (Mine) here in Colorado. Her driver license expired and when we went renew, the CO DMV said that her name doesn't match. She now doesn't have an identifying document (UNEXPIRED Drivers LIcense) and doesn't seem to have anything else that qualifies. Seems like we are in unresolvable situation. Any help greatly appreciated!
    Jeff

    • Hi Jeff. If your wife were to petition the court for a name change, the resulting court order would satisfy the Colorado DMV.

  20. Hello Valera,

    My husband and I have been married for two years. I have been putting off changing my name, but it is time. We are from Atlanta, GA and got married in Cobb County.
    My marriage license has my maiden name. I have the original, and an extra copy with the seal.
    Where do I go from now? I keep reading something about petitioning the court and having to run something in our local newspaper? Or needing a marriage license with the new last name.
    Please help.

    Thank you!

    • Hi Tsveta. Just make sure your marriage certificate is the original or certified copy. Take it to the SS office to change your name, then to the GA DDS.

    • Hi Tsveta –

      were you able to change your name after such a long time? I am in the same situation and don't want to have to go throught the court

      Thanks!

  21. Hello, my husband and I have been married over a year and I have changed my last name on every document except SSC there was a misspelling of my first name (by one letter) on our marriage license and I was not able to change it on my social. Will everything be ok as long as I use my maiden name for jobs and such?

    • Hi Bri. Well, that would be the name to use as it matches the name on your SS card. You're in a situation where the choice has been made for you due to a lack of options. For your workplace, they'll want your legal name. For payroll, taxes, they'll want the name they use to match what's attached to your SSN.

      If the name misspelling on your marriage certificate was an error on the clerk's part, have you tried to get it corrected? You can typically get such documents amended after the fact, if clerk's office is the one who erred.

  22. We got married in California in 2004. Traveled and lived abroad and this year we've just moved to my husband's home state. To change my name now can I do this from Ohio BMV, Ohio SS office etc..as long as I have the CA marriage license in hand? I'm making a trip to CA soon and wonder if there's a benefit to starting the process in CA? Would it be beneficial to do the name change before I apply for an Ohio drivers license?

  23. Hello,

    We filled out our marriage certificate with me taking my now fiance's last name. How long after the wedding ceremony do I have to go through all the legal steps (social security, etc) to change my last name? We are taking our honeymoon a little later after the wedding, about 2 months, so I would like to wait until then so I dont have to deal with getting a new passport, ID, and changing the airline tickets.

    • We are taking our honeymoon a little later after the wedding, about 2 months, so I would like to wait until then so I dont have to deal with getting a new passport, ID, and changing the airline tickets.

      You can wait until later to change it, when it's more convenient.

  24. Hi,
    So I have a kind of complicated situation. My wife and I are residents of Alaska, but we got married in Arkansas a month ago. She has changed her social security card. We need to get her name changed on her Drivers License. The problem is that I am in the military, and she will not be able to get up to Alaska for quite some time. So we are in Arkansas, and wondering how she can change her name on her Alaska Drivers license. Really worried she will have to just get her drivers license in Arkansas, but we want her to maintain her residency in Alaska. Anything will help. Thanks.

  25. Me & my wife got married in Philadelphia but we moved right after to South Carolina, she didn't change her name but would like too can she still change it even though we moved to another state?

    • she didn't change her name but would like too can she still change it even though we moved to another state?

      Yes, residency doesn't impact whether or not she can change her name.

      • I have a similar situation. We live in California, but plan to get married in DC (with small official ceremony) and then have larger ceremony a few days later in Virginia. Both my fiance and I plan on changing our names (bride change last name, groom change middle name). Can we change our names in California, or do we need to do this in DC (where we got married)? I ask, because California is easier to change names for males.

  26. Hi Valera,
    I have a double last name (so my maiden name, then my husband's last name, with no hyphen). I've already changed my SS card, driver's license, etc. We're planning on going to the Caribbean for our one year anniversary very shortly. Do I need to apply for the new passport for a name change to take the trip, or will my current passport with just my maiden name on it suffice?

    Thanks!

    • Hi Renee. Your current passport will suffice as long as you make sure it matches the name on your tickets. You can change your name on your passport after your trip.

  27. On my marriage license I signed it husband last name then mine. my question is when I go to change my last name do I have to change as that or can I do it mine then his? I was just gonna take his but last minute I ended up signing my maiden name.

    • Hi Nancy. You mentioned "signature", but name change goes by the printed portion of the application. For the printed portion, it can vary by state and how flexible the various agencies (especially the driver's license office) are in allowing you to change the sequence. Some states require the name change to be as it was originally spelled out.

  28. Hello,
    I recently got married back in July and I had originally hyphenated my name. I'm now wanting to take just his name but I got married in Hawaii and we are stationed in California. We're both active duty military and I have to change my uniform to my legal name. How can I go about getting my name changed to just his? Will I have to file a petition?

    • Hi Stefanie. Did you already change your name with the SSA and driver's license office? If so, you'll have to petition the court.

  29. If I use both my current ;last name ( which is my divorced name I kept because of children) and my new married name on the marriage license do I have to change all my legal documentation? ( SS#, driver license ( Calif), bank accts, credit cards, etc). I have been divorced for over 25 years and have had my divorced last name longer than my maiden name.

    • do I have to change all my legal documentation? ( SS#, driver license ( Calif), bank accts, credit cards, etc)

      No, you don't have to make any change. You can keep your name as-is and unchanged.

  30. I have kept my married name for years now even after my divorce. I am getting married next month and want to change my name back to my maiden name and hyphenate it with my new married name. How can I do that?

    • Hi Tracy. It can depend on the state. While all allow hyphenation, only some will allow hyphenation with a previous name. If you're not certain, you can contact the office which issues marriage licenses to determine what your options are.

  31. Hi Valera!

    I know many ppl asked practically the same question, but I'm still not 100% comprehending….

    On my marriage certificate I had my maiden name moved to my middle and switched his last name to my last name. FIRST, MAIDEN, HIS

    I do not plan on changing any of my documents to reflect the marriage certificate with his last name (SS, drivers license, bank, passport, etc.)

    What will my "legal" name be then, aka the name I sign legal documents? Will it be first middle maiden? First maiden his?

    If my legal name is still my previous First Middle Maiden, then what would the name on the certificate matter/be used for?

    Thanks soooooo much!!!! So glad I found this thread. :)

    • I do not plan on changing any of my documents to reflect the marriage certificate with his last name (SS, drivers license, bank, passport, etc.)

      What will my "legal" name be then, aka the name I sign legal documents? Will it be first middle maiden? First maiden his?

      It'll still be first middle maiden.

      If my legal name is still my previous First Middle Maiden, then what would the name on the certificate matter/be used for?

      It won't be used for anything.

  32. Hi,
    I just got married in NY and have changed my name to my husband's last name on the certificate. Will I need to change it to my new surname with the social security office before change it with the NY DMV or will they just accept the marriage certificate as proof of change?

    Separately, once I change my name with social security, will that affect my passport? I have a few years left on my passport and would rather not change that just yet because my travel and frequent flier accounts all have my maiden name and we are traveling abroad for our honeymoon at the end of the year.

    Thank you for your help!

    • Will I need to change it to my new surname with the social security office before change it with the NY DMV or will they just accept the marriage certificate as proof of change?

      You'll need to do your social first.

      Separately, once I change my name with social security, will that affect my passport?

      No, you can continue to use your current passport. Carry the original or certified copy of your marriage certificate with you when traveling to answer questions about name inconsistencies between your driver's license and passport.

      • Thank you Valera – I actually just returned from the DMV and they let me change my name without the SSN change! very strange, but glad that it saves me a trip back! Appreciate the response!

  33. I have my mom's maiden name as my middle name if I get married and decide to change my name to his. Do I still gonna have my mom's maiden name on ss, bmv. I would just like to have my future husband name and remove my mom's name

  34. Diane 11 july 17
    Please help I was divorced from my first husbands in uk and then married to my second husband in Navada on our marriage licence I put my first husbands name as my maiden name does this mean we are not married? Can I change it to my maiden/ birth name

    • Hi Diane. You're fine. You don't need to do anything, but if it's bothering you, you can contact the Nevada county recorder's office to request an amendment to your certificate. But those aren't usually granted unless there's a mistake on the part of the clerk.

  35. We got married several years ago. Our certificate has my maiden name. I don't see a space where I could have indicated my preferred new name. I live in Florida. I'm concerned that I may run into a problem when I attempt to change my maiden name to my married name. What do you think? Thanks!

    • Hi Jill. You should be fine. Not every state provides a space to specify a name change on the marriage license, which would subsequently be reflected on the certificate.

  36. Hi again, I just found this comment on another website, "I know how confusing that Social Security name change can be. Some forms say that you need to have your new name on your marriage license/certificate in order to change your name. I thought that meant that the marriage license had to show my name with both my maiden name and the married name I’d like to have. What it really means is that your marriage license just has to have the name you want to change yours to on it. So as long as your husband’s last name is on the cert. and that’s what you want to change it to, then you’re all set."
    Is this true? Or do I still have to petition the court? I live in Georgia.

    • Hi Maureen. This is true for some states and not others. Some states have a slot for the new name, some don't. If the application has a name after marriage area that you don't intend to abide by, there's a higher likelihood you may face difficulty with state agencies (such as the driver's license office) getting your name changed to something other than what was originally specified. Some applications directly state this "may" be a possibility, so it's not written in stone.

  37. I have my maiden name on my marriage certificate and want to change my last name to my husbands. I see that I have to file a petition with the county court clerk to change my last name… but how do I change it on my marriage certificate? Is it important to get it changed on the marriage certificate as well?

    • Hi Maureen. Name changes on marriage certificates aren't possible unless the clerk made a mistake recording it.

  38. Hi my name is travis and just got married by my pastor she sign certificate. Do i have to take it back to the court before i go to dvm and social service or can i use the certificate that we signed at the wedding.

    • Hi Travis. It differs by state. You'll have to contact the driver's license office to determine if they require a certified copy from the recorder's office.

  39. I saw a couple of questions about this but no clear answer for the state of California – I would like to change my last name to my husband's now, but my marriage certificate reflects my maiden name as my "declared surname" since I wasn't sure about changing it at the time. Will I be able to use this certificate to change my social security card and driver's license or will I need to get the marriage certificate changed first, and how do I go about doing that? Thanks.

    • Hi Shaina. You can read more about changing your name in California. Since you didn't specify your new name on your marriage license, you'll likely have to go through a court petitioned name change. Marriage certificates can be altered if the mistake is on the part of the clerk. Any other such modifications aren't likely to be accepted.

  40. I am trying to get my name on my DL changed to my married name but I seem to never have the time can my husband take care of it for me?

    • Hi Octavia. I don't know of any state DMV that'll allow a person to update name or change of address information for someone else. You can contact your DMV to determine if they'll allow a proxy, but 1) it's unlikely they'll accept any scenario for a name change, and 2) if they did, the reason would have to be extraordinary.

  41. A friend of mine had her name changed to hyphenate her last name and her husband's last name on her marriage license/ certificate – in CA (they married in 2012). Now she just wants his last name. She never changed her name with SS or DMV etc to the hyphenated name on her california marriage certificate. Would she able to to change her name just to his last name at SS office? ( and then the DMV) Or do you think she would need a court order? I am asking because the name change filing fee is pretty steep ($435)

    • Hi Angela. While she may not have an issue with the SS office, the CA DMV can be strict about the name on the certificate not equaling what she'll be changing to. She can give it a try, and if it doesn't work out she'll either have to attempt another DMV office or go through the court system.

  42. Hi Valera
    I am trying to get a passport and just relized that on my marriage license that my birth name is on my marriage license. I was adopted an my parents changed my birth name which is on my adoption papers. I just relized that when we got married 40 years ago that my birh name and not my adopted first name is on our marriage license. Immigration wanted proof that I was married so that is when I saw that my name was wrong on our license. My application for my passport was denied and I think it is because of this. even though I sent a copy of my adoption papers with my legal name on it . What do I need to get this fixed.

  43. Hello Valera,

    I got married on November 2014, and the person guiding us said that I have to use my husband last names both of them. I asked him if I can used my father last name with my husband last name and he said no. We got married in NYC and I am worried if i remarry again the dates will be change and the site of the ceremony as well. Do you recommend to keep the marriage license the way it is or to go and remarry again changing SS etc? Thank you

    • Hi Sara. If you remarry, the older marriage certificate wouldn't matter. Differing dates or venue sites wouldn't impact anything.

  44. Hi. I got married back in Oct in Tn. I haven't not legally changed my last name ( via ssa and dmv) but would like to use my husbands last name. Is it legal for me to fill out government documents using his last name, when social n drivers license still all in maiden name??? Thanks.

  45. Hi I'm remarrying in June on the 25th my social says my married name but my ID says my maiden name and my divorce is nearly final on June 14th if I change it back to my maiden is it affective immediately and will they give me a temporary proving it's changed or what please help

    • Hi Tanya. Once your divorce is final and your divorce decree orders a restoration of your maiden name, it does not automatically change your name back. You'll have to contact the SSA, driver's license office, and other institutions, to notify them of your name change. You'll have to supply a certified copy of your decree as evidence of your name change event. You can do this the same day you get your decree.

      If you intend to change your name to that of your new spouse, you can skip the brief married to maiden reversion, then just go straight from old married name to new married name using a certified copy of your marriage certificate.

  46. Hi there. My husband and I were married in 2011. We reside in Illinois. For some reason, I changed my name on everything but my social security card. I printed off the forms yesterday and noticed that it said for proof of identity since it's been over two years I would need something with my previous name. My current driver's license has my married name. I have my certified marriage certificate, birth certificate, and drivers license with my husbands last name. Will this be a problem for me at Social Security office? I plan on going in person. Will I have the right documents???

    • Hi Chelsea. If you go to the SSA and allege to not have any identity document in your prior name, they'll use the new name on your driver's license (along with your marriage certificate) to process your name change.

  47. Does it make a difference if i change my SS or license first? Or can i do either first without it being a problem.

    • Hi Elizabeth. SS first, in case the driver's license office queries the SSA database for a name match/mismatch.

  48. Hi I live here in Florida since I was 8. I was born in Puerto Rico. my name has two last names. when I got married in 2001 my wife wanted only one of my last name. in the marriage papers that says both last names when she got her driver's license between 2001 to 2016. she had just one of my last names. When she went to get her address change they told her. a new law in FL that she has to carry both of them last names. I don't know if this is true or what but I really want to know how can she just only keep one of her last name if I have to go to court and change my name I will do it for her. which the proper way to go with this.

  49. I live in Florida and hear it's a 3 hour wait for the ss office here so I'm considering the mail option. Will a color photocopy of my driver's license and my original marriage certificate work? Do I also need to send a certified copy of my birth certificate? I sent off for some certified copies today, but not sure how long it will take to receive them. Thanks!

  50. Hi! My husband and I are both US citizens, and we got married in Manila just last December. I was able to change my last name at SSA using the marriage certificate from Manila (which is written in English). However, when i went to the California DMV, they told me that they do not accept foreign documents, even though the SSA was able to change my name with no problem.

    Additionally, they told me I had to go get a court order to change my name (which I researched online can cost as much as $450??) AND on top of that, they said that I would have to go to New Jersey (where I was born) to get the Court Order.

    PLEASE HELP!

    I find it impossible that every single person who had a destination wedding has to go through that process!

  51. Hi valera

    I recently gotten married so I went to the bmv to change my last name on me driver lincense and before my new picture was taken they asked for my signature and I singed with my maiden name, instead of signing with my new last name, at the time I did not realize what a did until I got home. My name and everything else on the papers I signed on the temporary paper to drive are correct, just the signature at the time of the picture not.
    Will I have any problems with that?

    • Hi Lis. It's doubtful it'll pose a problem in any typical real world sense. The signature is important for identification purposes, so if you're concerned about it you can have your signature redone and license reissued. Since the mistake was on your part, you'll have to pay any renewal fee and have your picture retaken.

  52. I got married this week in a different state from where I reside. I plan to change my name. Here's the tricky part (or hopefully not): We are planning on moving from this state to another in about 6 weeks. My feeling is that I can just proceed with name change via SSA, then, when I move to new state, change my driver's license and everything else then. Seems like a big waste of time (and expense) to do it now and then again in 6 weeks… is there anything I'm missing?

  53. Hi I got married 6 years ago in New York and did not change my name to my husbands last name that time. Called city clerk office today and they said to change it I must remarry. Is there any other way I can do this without remarrying. If I do re-marry will my original/first marriage certificate be null and void ?

    • Hi Sara. An alternate approach is to get a court petitioned name change. Folks in CA, if they didn't specify their name change at the marriage application time, face similar situations.

  54. I have a question my husband and I got married in New York State in 2010 and on the application for marriage name change i kept my maiden name. My marriage certificate has my maiden name on it as my last name (maiden ) on it as well. I now reside in New Jersey and would like to either hyphenate my husbands name or take his last name for all legal documents. My question is do I need to go and legally change my last name with the courts? or is my marriage certificate showing that we are married enough to take my husbands name legally? Thank you

      • I saw that you stated my marriage certificate would be enough but I see the that the person after me sent you a similar question and she states that city clerk said she needed to remarry or go through court process and now I am confused?

        • Hi Rachel. You're changing your name in New Jersey, while she's changing it in a different state. Different standards for different states.

  55. Hi Valera!

    Can I use my old passport (maiden name) while I'm waiting for a new one with the name change if I already have a new Social Security Card and Drivers License? Will the old passport still be valid?

    Thanks!
    Kathleen

    • Hi Kathleen. Yes, it's still valid. It's a good idea to keep to certified copy of your marriage certificate with you, on your travels, to answer any name discrepancy questions that may arise.

  56. i have a question i live in wis i got married a few years ago but when i signed the certificate it was with my last name can i still change it to my husbands last name!!

  57. I used my first husband's last name when we got married I got my s s # changed but we divorced I got married the 2nd time did not change my ss# if I was to get married again would I use the name on my ss# or the last person I marred to sign the new marriage license ?

  58. So grateful for this blog.

    Question: After our wedding, I went to the Social Security office and changed my name to a hyphenated version (MAIDEN-HIS). We never thought we would be able to have children and it was a much better professional choice for me. However, SUPRISE! We now have a sweet little one and I would like for our last names to match (HIS last name)…this is such an awesome problem. :) Based on the new Social Security rules…can I simply request a "name correction" or do I need to go to the SS office and request a "name change" or do I need a court order? If I do need a court order, will the order change my name on my birth certificate?

    Thanks in advance!

    • Hi Kay. You'll have to go the court order route. Yes, it would allow you to modify your birth certificate.

      • Thanks for the speedy reply! :)

        So, would I be able to leave my birth certificate as it is currently AND request a name change? In short, I would like to leave my birth certificate with my maiden name. Will I be able to do this and change my name to Kay "HIS last name"?

  59. Hello!
    I am getting married in August and we are planning on going on a honeymoon cruise in December. I will be changing my last name to my husbands last name on the Marriage Certificate as well. My question is in Minnesota we are required to update our drivers license within 30 days, however I really do not want to have to try and get everything adjusted and pay for a new passport before the cruise as my documents need to match the name I use to register for the cruise. Will I be fine to wait until after the cruise in December to change everything so I don't have to spend $110 on a new passport?

    • Will I be fine to wait until after the cruise in December to change everything so I don't have to spend $110 on a new passport?

      Yes, that's a common route many people choose to take; complete the name change later when there's more time available.

  60. Hi Valera,

    Hope all is well! I live in New York and got married in New York 6 months ago, but I am from Texas. I do not yet have a NY ID, but I'd like to get one with my new surname. (I am in the process of changing my surname and dropping my maiden name.) To be more specific, I have actually lost my Texas ID and as I live in NY I cannot easily replace it. I have obtained a Driver's Abstract, though.

    So, if I go to the DMV with the following documents, will I be able to get a NY ID with my new married name? :
    1. TX Driver's Abstract with my maiden name
    2. New SS card with married name
    3. New Passport with married name

    Thank you so much for your help and advice here!

      • Hi Valera,

        Hope you are having a great day! Checking back in here for some extra support. (THANKS!) My update:

        I am currently waiting for my new SS card with my married name. They said it should be about two weeks, and one week has passed so far.

        I am also still waiting for a certified copy of my marriage license. It has been almost 6 weeks since I mailed everything to the NY City Clerk's office. I know I need this document to apply for the updated passport.

        SO, I do not yet have on hand a passport with my new surname nor a new SS card with my new surname, but I am getting really anxious to get the NY ID. If I go to the DMV with the following document, will I be able to get a NY ID with my new surname?:

        1. TX Driver's Abstract with my maiden name
        2. Passport with my maiden name
        3. Marriage certificate

        Again, thank you so much for your help here!

        • Hi Naomi. You'll need your social security card to move forward, so you'll have to wait for it to arrive. Your SS card, passport, and marriage certificate is sufficient.

  61. I've changed my name legally, but i left my husband 1 month after i changed my name. So i didn't really have chance to change any of my ID's and other documents. Do i still need to change them all or is that okay to keep using my ID's and documents with my maiden name?

    • Hi Daphne. Did you change your name with the SSA already? If so, you may eventually run into problems with your remaining identification not being in sync.

      • Yes i did! :( I left my husband already. It doesn't make sense to change everything, wait for 1 year and change everything again! It's not fair i'm going true all these problems and he doesn't have to deal with any of them. I don't know what to do! :(

        • Hi Daphne. I'm sorry you're having to go through this hard time. It can be difficult dealing with a name change and looking to potentially undo it. The SSA runs things technically, and in order for them to return to a previous name they'll need something to confirm your name change event, such as a marriage certificate, divorce decree restoring a previous name, or court order. While there's nothing to force you to change your other ID, your legal name is what's on your SS card.

          If you need to get things in sync you can opt to go for a court petitioned name change. It's a little bit of work, but it'll get the job done. And it's quite a common thing that people go through.

          • Thanks so much Valera! I'm sure it's less work and cost than changing everything twice! :)

  62. Teresa, I just want to know if you have a time limit to change your last name on your license
    or your social security card. And can you change it in the middle of the year.

  63. I am a married women my name is Mathota i want to know i never change my surname in my ID so now i want to change it only surname i don't want to do onether id how much it can cost and how much it can cost

    • Hi Mathota. If you're referring to your driver's license, you may be charged a reissue fee. Are you referring to another identity document?

  64. Hi
    My name is Mary I'm 5 months married when im get marry im put my last name and my husband last name now before I do everything I want to change just my husband last name where can I go? And what I need to do?

    • Hi Mary. First, get a certified copy of your marriage certificate. Then update your name with the SSA, DMV, passport office, etc.

  65. I've already gotten married, but when I did I didn't write what my married name would be on the certificate as I didn't realize thats what I needed to do. How would I go about changing it since my marriage certificate doesn't even have the correct name?

    • Hi Liz. In most cases, marriage certificates can't be amended unless there's a clerical error on the part of the recording office.

  66. I'm not sure if there is time to get an answer on this – I'm getting married in Puerto Rico this Friday. The wedding planner has asked me to send her a copy of my birth certificate so she can start the marriage license process. I told her my legal name isn't my birth name, it is my name from prior marriage. She said the marriage certificate WILL be in my maiden name though. Since all my legal documents, SSA, drivers license, passport, etc is in my prior married name, will the marriage in my maiden name be legal and will that document allow me to change my name legally on passport, drivers license, etc?

    • Hi Linnai. Yes, your marriage will be legal, and you'll be able to use the marriage certificate they provide.

      • i dont think that is correct..i have same problem..got married 2nd time..all my docs have name from prev.marriage..now, my 2nd marriage certificate has my maiden name that i used over 20 years ago…i went to SS office and they said they needed both certificates from 1st and 2nd marriages..my utility company is asking me for marriage certificate, but they will see there my maiden name that they never heard of…
        Valera please help me to clarify…thank you very much

        • Hi Svetlana. Are you unable to get a certified copy of your marriage certificate from your first marriage in order to satisfy their request?

          • thank you for prompt response…i only have a copy..i m afraid that for my passport they will make me to get the certified copy..i will have to order it..it was 23 years ago

  67. Hello,

    Quick question-If I wanted to do the mail in way, can I send a copy of my DL and the original copy of my marriage certificate? Or do i have to go in with physical copy of ID and my marriage certificate?

    Any help is appreciated.

    Jen

    • Hi Jen. For federal and state government organizations, physical copy of license and certified or original copy of the marriage certificate. For nongovernmental organizations, a photocopy is usually sufficient.

  68. I recently submitted a passport renewal because my passport was expired. I married 6 years ago and my maiden name was on the expired passport as well. I had all my paperwork checked at a nearby passport facility and they said everything was fine. I wasn't sure if I had the right certified marriage certificate, but they said I had the correct document. I just received an email from the government stating that I need to submit "a certified copy of the court order or marriage certificate reflecting your legal change of name…." My certificate only has my maiden name, but after reading through these posts, it sounds as if this is the case for some states. I have tried to contact the National Passport Information Center without success. I obtained new certified marriage certificates if for some reason the one I sent was not a certified one. But I do not want to send this and have them reject it because it still has my maiden name. Any advice? Thank you!

    • Hi Deanna. It's worth sending the newer certified copy, as you're certain it's valid. They'll send it back to you once they're done processing it.

  69. Hi Valera,

    Thank you for your replies. I was going through the blogs and one question came to my mind. So is it OK if I change my name only on my passport and leave other documents as my maiden name?

    Thank You,

    MC

    • Hi MC. You can do this, but you'll want to make sure the name on your passport matches the name on your airline tickets.

  70. I am from Arkansas, and I have been divorced for 3 years. I am wanting to legally change my last name back to my maiden name what is the first step in that process?

    • Hi Janet. If your divorce decree has an order restoring your maiden name, order a certified copy of your divorce decree to change your name with the SSA, then DMV. If it doesn't have a restoration order, then you'll have to petition the court for a name change.

  71. Good afternoon,

    I got married about 5 months ago. When applying for the marriage license I hyphenated my name with my husband's last name on the application for a new "surname". The marriage license has my last name and husband's last name hyphenated. Do I still have to change it on important documents because I sort of don't want to. But if I have to then it's fine I'll do it.

    Thanks :)
    Delilah

    • Do I still have to change it on important documents because I sort of don't want to. But if I have to then it's fine I'll do it.

      Not at all. If you choose not to go through with a name change, you can just disregard what you originally stated on your marriage license. That document doesn't obligate you to do anything.

  72. My daughter was married 4 months ago. She took her husbands name on the marriage certificate. She has changed her name with social security. She is in the process of changing her name on her passport. She went to the DMV in New Hampshire to change her name on her drivers license and they stated that since 90 days have passed, she has to go thru probate court. Cost is $110.00 for filing and she will have to appear. If granted, the cost will be $10.00 for a new license. She is thinking of just using her passport for legal ID and just not dealing with the DMV. Is that ok? Will she be able to just change it when the license is up for renewal just using her social security card, passport and marriage certificate?

    • Hi Kathy. At renewal time, she'll be facing the same issue. So it's more a matter of deal with it now or later.

  73. Hi,

    I got married 3 months ago. At the time of marriage, I didn't know if I wanted to change my name or not. At the time, I ended up changing it:. My husbands last name is his father's first name. My original last name was my father's first name.

    On the marriage license/certificate, it lists my new name, with my FIRST HISLAST (father's first). I still haven't changed my name anywhere, am I required to do so? I changed my mind and want to keep my original name. Although the marriage certificate had my new name listed in 'new name' section, does that certify my name had been changed legally? Am I required to change it or can I keep my original forever?

    Please advise.

    • Am I required to change it or can I keep my original forever?

      No, you are not required to change your name, regardless of what's specified on your marriage license/certificate. Name change is optional.

    • Hi April. Yes, you can still change your name, but you'll have to use a certified copy of your marriage certificate, not your marriage license.

  74. Hi,
    I live in Texas and I want to take my future wife's surname. Texas isn't very helpful when it comes to giving "unusual" information, but they will tell you that it's an odd request. Do you know if I can change it on the marriage license here or do I have to go to court? I'm from Massachusetts and my fiance is from new York but we are getting married and live in Texas now. I know that in those other states you can do it on the license.
    Thank you.

    • Hi Paul. While NY and MA would allow for you to take your future wife's name as part of a marriage-related name change, Texas would require you to petition the court. The marriage license wouldn't come into play there.

  75. Can I just use a hyphens on checks without changing my maiden name due to being disable or any other documents we where married 2 years ago i really want to keep maiden name It is on marriage certificate than you Teri Testa

    • Hi Teri. Are you saying that you haven't or don't want to change your last name, yet you want to informally use a hyphenated version of your name when you sign checks? If that's the case, it may not pose much of an issue, but you may need to update your signature card at the bank and notify them of your intentions.

      On the other hand, if you're wanting to have personal checks printed in your hyphenated name, you can run into issues when trying to cash the checks, as it won't match the name on your ID. That's something that will have to be worked out with your bank. They may or may not allow it. If that's not what you're asking, please clarify.

  76. Hello, I got married in 4months ago in Ca. I just moved in MA and I didn't have time to go to SSN or DMV to change my last name after my husband name. We have a mariange license. I started school , apply for medical, got a new DL here in MA with my maiden name. I am wondering if it can be any problem with the SSN office because I didnt change my new name yet.
    Does it show on the system that I am maried or not?
    Will be any problem if I will do my taxes separate?
    Please help! I would really appreciate your help.

    • I am wondering if it can be any problem with the SSN office because I didnt change my new name yet.

      No.

      Does it show on the system that I am maried or not?

      Not really pertinent.

      Will be any problem if I will do my taxes separate?

      No.

  77. Please help!

    I am from ny but got married in nj in June this year. I did not change my last name to my husbands name on the marriage cirtificate thus it still shows my maiden name. Can I take my marriage cirtificate to the Social security office to legally change my last name to his? Or do I need to get a petition?

    Promee from New York.

  78. We are getting married next month and both my husband and I would like to change our last name. I have been married before but would like for our new last names to go to his last name hyphen my maiden name instead of the ex's last name i have right now. I have checked several different places and seem to get different advice on what we need to do to accomplish that. Do you know what steps we need to take or where I can go to find out the correct info? Any help is greatly appreciated!

    • Hi Nichole. Some states allow this sort of flexibility, some states don't. To find out definitely, you can contact the office where you'll be applying for your marriage license. They can advise you on the possible name reconfiguration or combinations.

  79. Hi I got married in April I was wondering if I change my last name to his his last name would it mess up anything and how long would it take for my medical card to be changed to his last name

    • Hi Erica. It shouldn't mess up anything. As your medical card isn't a federal or state organization, it's difficult to provide a turnaround time estimate. There are two points in the timeline: 1) Having your name updated within their system, and 2) receiving your updated medical card. Some organizations will update your record over the phone, or through their website, and provide a method for you to download your new updated card while a physical copy is mailed to you. Inquire with them directly about the fastest way to update your document.

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