Is There a Deadline for Name Change After Marriage?

Is There a Deadline for Name Change After Marriage?

How much time do you have to change your name after getting married? And how might you avoid getting consumed by the effects of waiting too long to meet your deadlines?

Today you will learn to schedule and order your name change chronology, from your social security card and passport, to your driver's license or REAL ID.

What is the problem?

Suppose you have completed a name change event:

  • Marriage
  • Divorce or annulment
  • Court-petitioned name change

And you have a name change document proving said event:

  • Marriage certificate
  • Divorce decree
  • Court order

How much time do you have to change your name until you are:

  1. Unable to change your name, period.
  2. Forced into filing a new court-petitioned name change.

The good news is neither ugly outcome is on the table. But you still have to navigate other name change deadlines and consequences.

Once your schedule is in order, you can circle back and use our online name change kit to complete the name change process, as that is the ultimate time crunch end goal.

Deadlines, schedules, and running against the clock

There is no hard, destructive deadline to change your name after marriage, divorce, or court order. Meaning, you will never face an outright name change shut out.

Yet demarcations and time limits do exist that will affect the duration, expense, and effort involved in changing your name. You are running against the clock.

Tiny woman running with clock

The longer you wait to change your name may cost you more in time, money, and energy spent because of shifting requirements. You are up against multiple timelines and deadlines.

When does your name change begin?

Do you know when the name change process starts?

  1. Upon marriage, divorce, or court petition.
  2. Updating your social security card.
  3. Updating your driver's license.
  4. None of the above.

The answer is split:

  1. None of the above for passports.
  2. Updating your social security card for everything else.

Social security ID deadline

The Social Security Administration (SSA) has a two-year rule for social security card name changes. Their identity verification standards are stricter after two years.

Hand with pencil marking calendar

Meaning, your name change document may serve as ID—in place of photo ID—if your name change event took place within two years. This simplifies name change by mail.

For instance, if you got married 23 months ago, you have one month left to change the name on your social security card by mail using just your marriage certificate; no need to include your driver's license, passport, or other photo ID.

There is no penalty beyond the added inconvenience of including ID in your mailed paperwork. (You could always change your name in person instead of mail to escape this burden.)

Driver's license notification deadline

Most U.S. states have laws that dictate when you must notify the driver's license authority—DMV, DOT, DPS, BMV, etc—that you have changed your name or address.

Smiling woman driving car

Note: We will use DMV as shorthand to reference your state's driver's license office.

What do your state's laws require?

The most common notification intervals are 10, 30, and 60 days, as shown in the following table. We will explain later why this may represent a Herculean or impossible task.

StateDeadline
Alabama30 days
Alaska30 days
Arizona10 days
Arkansas30 days
California10 days
Colorado30 days
Connecticut48 hours
Delaware30 days
District of Columbia60 days
Florida30 days
Georgia60 days
Hawaii30 days
Idaho90 days
Illinois10 days
Indiana30 days
Iowa30 days
Kansas10 days
Kentucky10 days
Louisiana10 days
Maine30 days
Maryland30 days
Massachusetts30 days
Michigan10 days
Minnesota30 days
Mississippi30 days
MissouriUnspecified
Montana10 days
Nebraska60 days
Nevada30 days
New Hampshire30 days
New JerseyOne week
New Mexico10 days
New York10 days
North Carolina60 days
North Dakota10 days
Ohio10 days
Oklahoma10 days
Oregon30 days
Pennsylvania15 days
Rhode Island10 days
South Carolina10 days
South DakotaUnspecified
Tennessee10 days
Texas30 days
Utah10 days
Vermont30 days
Virginia30 days
Washington10 days
West Virginia20 days
Wisconsin10 days
Wyoming10 days

These deadlines are trivial if you were only changing your address. Many DMVs offer change of address online or by mail. But name change requires two extra components:

  1. Changing your name in person.
  2. Updating your social security record first.

Explaining what it means to notify

So your state driver's license office says you must notify them of your address or name change within a precise number of days: 10, 30, 60, or whatnot.

Woman shouting through megaphone

For example, here is Texas' statute (the language is similar across states):

[You] shall notify the department of the change not later than the 30th day after the date on which the change takes effect and apply for a duplicate license

Example name change statute.

But what does "notify" mean? An email, phone call, or form submission? And what does "of the change" and "change takes effect" represent? The day you marry or divorce?

Here is the real-world translation:

You must apply for a new driver's license, REAL ID, or state-issued ID card—in person—within 30 days of changing the name on your social security record.

Clarified rewording of prior example name change statute.

Not 30 days from your marriage, divorce, or other name change event, but counting from when the Social Security Administration updates your record.

Driver's license and social security names must match

You may have noticed throughout this page references to your social security record, not your social security card. This is the metric used by your driver's license office.

They will use your marriage certificate, divorce decree, court order, or other name change document to confirm your name change event occurred. But that alone is not enough.

Detective holding giant magnifying glass

First, they will check that your name change took place on the federal level by performing an electronic query against the Social Security Administration database.

Hands holding puzzle pieces solving jigsaw

Your driver's license name change depends on your social security name change finishing first. Your name change will get rejected if they discover an identity mismatch.

Tip: Space out your social security and driver's license name change by 24 to 48 hours. This gives time for social security's database to refresh before getting queried.

Penalties for not reporting

You may incur a penalty for failure to report your address or name change to the DMV within the allotted time frame. For instance, Texas imposes a $20 fine, while New York is $75.

Woman running up stack of coins

A failure to notify penalty is most often applied when a police officer pulls you over for an unrelated traffic violation, and not upon renewing your driver's license.

Complying with the law

Abiding by these narrow time constraints is tough, even if you were intent to follow the spirit and letter of the law by expediting your name change.

Young police officer chasing thieves escaping with stolen bag

Your social security filing will not get a tracking number akin to a mail parcel. Beyond receiving your new card by mail, you will not know when your record has updated.

Your DMV's name change deadlines may be difficult or impossible to honor, given their expectation that your social security name change gets finished first.

But written law and real life often diverge. You may take solace knowing that while penalties and fines are real, their enforcements are rare. (Minus the unlucky.)

Passport notification deadline

The U.S. State Department does not exact penalties for failure to change the name or address associated with your passport. You could even renew in your old name.

Your passport age affects the renewal fees, forms, and steps. Waiting too long may increase the fees while ruling out the convenience of mailing your paperwork.

Man at airport traveling with suitcase

If your passport is less than one-year-old, you can renew it by mail for free via Form DS-5504. This is when good timing and expeditiousness can become a money saver.

Between one and 15 years, $100+ fees kick in via Form DS-82. But they still allow renewal by mail. Beyond 15 years, you have got bigger fees and in person filing via Form DS-11.

IRS notification deadline

When you change the name on your social security card, the SSA will automatically alert the IRS that your name has changed.

Married couple filing tax return

And the name on your tax returns, W-2s, 1099s, and employee records must match. This can push against federal tax filing deadlines, resulting in tax return and refund delays.

Review our IRS name change guide to for guidance on how and when to start your name change so that it does not disrupt your tax filings, now or in the future.

Deadline to final destination

There is no cut-off-point deadline for changing your name after marriage, divorce, or court order. But target dates in between may make your life harder when they are past due.

Two key takeaways:

  1. Do not procrastinate.
  2. Do not start what you cannot finish.

And an extra takeaway: get started. Our online name change kit can help guide you through your new name journey, specific to your timetable.

Our name change kit helps you change your name, either before or after marriage.

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90 Comments

  1. Helena

    If I make an appointment to change my driver's license name and it's not matched with social security will I have to keep coming back?

    I sent in my SS name change paperwork two weeks ago and it hasn't come yet. Can the DMV just hold my info and retry without my being there and just send my license once they're done?

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      Hi Helena. Yes, you'll have to return. It won't get placed in a queue.

      Reply
  2. Lina

    So I changed my name on my social security card a few months ago but nothing else. Will the DMV find out if I don't tell them?

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      Hi Lina. The SSA will not notify the DMV about your name change. It's not their their responsibility.

      Reply
      1. Lina

        Thanks but what about the county clerk? My marriage certificate says I changed my name and I'm wondering if they share it with the DMV. Can they somehow get this info about me?

        Reply
        1. Tyrone Jones

          Hi Lina. The county clerk isn't going to notify anyone about the contents of your marriage certificate other than the state vital records office when they report your marriage.

          The DMV and other federal or state agencies aren't notified about the new name shown on your marriage certificate. They aren't notified about your marriage at all.

          Reply
  3. Diana

    So I got married in July and I filed for A disability claim in June. I haven’t changed my name yet because I am at the end of my third trimester and about to pop. Will getting married have postponed my disability claim because my last name is changed on my marriage certificate?

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      Will getting married have postponed my disability claim because my last name is changed on my marriage certificate?

      Changing your name through marriage or showing a changed name on your marriage certificate doesn't affect disability benefits. SSDI benefits aren't affected because of marriage, no matter what your spouse makes. But SSI benefits are affected by marriage because the SSA will consider part of your spouse's income in their calculations.

      Reply
  4. Angie Aragon

    I hyphenated and added my husbands my last to name when I got married but have kept using the same name (my first name, last name) without the hyphenation, I never contacted SSA. Can I just keep using my name or do I have to notify SSA or DMV of my new hyphenated name.

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      do I have to notify SSA or DMV of my new hyphenated name

      No, you do not have to take further action. You only have to notify once you begin the legal name change process by updating your social security record.

      Reply
  5. Gigi B.

    I have an odd situation. Back when I got married I decided to leave my last name as it was. My husband purchased a new car and had the title paperwork done up with my name included, and the dealership clerk assumed that my last name was the same as my husbands.

    Long story short – they insisted I run to the local N.Y. DMV to have my license changed so they could complete the sales transaction. It is the ONLY doc I have with that last name! So, Soc. Sec., IRS, banks, etc. all have my other name.

    I've been able to make it work, except that we just moved to PA – and when I went to change from a NY lic to PA … they aren't wanting to let me use my old name, and that is what all of my other ID is in. And I do mean ALL.

    I had at one point (still in NY) thought about changing everything to my husbands last name, but we had been married longer than 2 years by then and the Soc Sec rep informed me that I would have to apply for a formal name change through our county Supreme Court! At this point I don't even know what to do. The PA DMV clerks weren't too sure either.

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      Hi Gigi. Without getting into the accuracy or merits of PA DMV/PennDOT's assertions, you can try to correct your NY title or registration, and then get it reissued with the proper name. You may even need to get the dealership to help, as they initiated the mistake.

      Reply
  6. Melissa K

    I am getting married in IL today, but retiring in March 2023 and moving to MI where my hubby was transferred. I am planning on changing my name when I move. Will it be all right to wait? Of course I will change ssi first, but not until the move.

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      I am planning on changing my name when I move. Will it be all right to wait?

      Yes, you can wait to change your name until your ready. The various countdowns begin once you change the name on your social security card, not when your marriage takes place.

      Reply
  7. Kristi

    I changed my name at the SSA two days ago but the soonest I could get an appointment with the DMV is a month and a half from now. My state has a 30 day time limit for updating at the DMV. Will I be penalized?

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  8. Jennifer Jones

    Help! I got married 4 years ago. I never changed my name with SSA because..well… Covid. (Offices near me were closed and I would have had to go to Orlando.) But I would really love to do it now and have it be a surprise for my husband for his birthday. I live in Florida… is this going to be impossible and what should I do?

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      Hi Jennifer. The procedure for a delayed name change is very similar to one that takes place soon after marriage.

      Since your marriage took place over two years ago, you're no longer in the SSA two-year name change window, which means you'll have to provide identification along with your social security application.

      Had you changed your name within two years of marriage, your marriage certificate could have been used for ID (under common criteria).

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      1. KC

        Hi Tyrone. After the 2 year SSA window, what do you mean by provide identification? Like a driver license's even though it says my older name (before marriage)? This is the additional documentation needed in order to do a name change after the 2 year window? Is there anything else?

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  9. Marie

    I got married last year and just haven't updated my married last name through the SSA yet (I am currently in the process now). I did however update it at my bank because I knew I was going to change it eventually and was on the phone with them about something else and they asked me if I wanted them to change it for me.

    It has taken me over a year now to officially start the process. I sent my marriage certificate into my bank last year and they changed it in their system and on my debit card.

    I just got a letter in the mail saying I need to fill out this form because my taxes got filed under my maiden name for 2021 (because again my name hasn't been updated through SSA) so basically my last name at the bank and my last name on my SS card and through IRS do not match anymore.

    My bank has not really been helpful in helping me with what they need from me to fix this issue. Is this a big problem now?

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      Hi Marie. The path of least resistance may be to revert your name change on your bank account, while asking them to continue honoring your maiden or married name on checks, deposits, and debit cards. They may require two signature cards stored on file.

      Reply
  10. Cynthia

    My wife changed her name to a hyphen version because our kids were young. They have all grown and we want to get the name changed to my married name without the hyphen. Will the marriage certificate and driver's license work to complete this with SSA.

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      Hi Cynthia. That should work with the SSA, it might not work for your driver's license.

      Reply
  11. Justine Reasor

    I am getting married in February but have a trip to Iceland in September (7 months apart). Everything from my passport, plane ticket, and reservations are all in my maiden name. Will I be ok going to a different country if I wait until October to begin changing my name or will I have problems leaving the country.

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      Hi Justine. Yes, you'll be fine waiting until later next year to change your name. It's important that the name on your passport and plane tickets match.

      If you were to change the name on your passport before departing, you would need to get your airline tickets reissued under your new name.

      You can avoid the hassles of a name mismatch by deferring your name change until your after your travels have concluded.

      Reply
  12. Alba K

    So just to clarify because I worry… Let's say I hyphenate on the marriage certificate and NEVER change it anywhere else (not SSN, ID, etc) nothing happens, right? Is there a scenario where showing a marriage certificate with the semi-different name will be an issue (for example changing health insurance due to qualifying life event)?

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      Let's say I hyphenate on the marriage certificate and NEVER change it anywhere else (not SSN, ID, etc) nothing happens, right?

      Right, the status quo remains.

      Is there a scenario where showing a marriage certificate with the semi-different name will be an issue

      No, because your marriage certificate will still show your current, legal name, alongside your proposed new married name—which doesn't exist outside of the certificate. In most real-world cases, your marriage certificate isn't even considered an identity document.

      Reply
  13. Kiarra

    We will be eloping in September and I do plan on changing my name; however, our family will not know about our elopement. We plan on getting “married” with family/friends a full year after. I should write the name I’m taking on my marriage license, then report the change to DMV & Social Security etc. correct?

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      I should write the name I’m taking on my marriage license, then report the change to DMV & Social Security etc. correct?

      Correct. And this reportage may take place before or after your informal marriage ceremony amongst family and friends.

      Reply
  14. Michelle Olson

    Does the 30 days start when I change my name with SSA or when I sign my marriage liscence? I'm traveling soon and don't think everything would be processed in time for my trip so I'd like to wait until after I return if I can.

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      Hi Michelle. The 30 day countdown starts when you change your name with the Social Security Administration.

      Reply
  15. Lauren

    Hello,

    I was married in Ohio in October 2022 but live in Indiana. I changed my name in November through the SS office, have requested an updated passport, but have not done my driver's license.

    I was holding off until February of this year, since we were moving and I want to change my last name and my address at the same time. I was unaware of the 30 day policy in Indiana.

    Will it be okay if I go now/in the future to change my name? Will I be penalized?

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      Will it be okay if I go now/in the future to change my name? Will I be penalized?

      Since you're moving, your Indiana driver's license will be replaced with an Ohio driver's license. You won't face a penalty because your next driver's license application will occur in Ohio, not Indiana.

      By the way, since you're moving and changing your name, you may want to review the USPS name change and mail forwarding article.

      Reply
  16. Tess

    I was married in July, and due to some hold ups, I have just recently received our Marriage Certificate with my new, hyphenated name on it. I have NOT changed my SSN or updated official documents in any other way.

    My concern is that my husband and I are about to buy our first home, and I am wondering if I am making a mistake buy purchasing this home in my maiden name, knowing later down the line I will be changing everything to my new last name.

    Could my maiden name on the deed lead to issues later down the line (like selling the house in 10 years)?

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      Could my maiden name on the deed lead to issues later down the line (like selling the house in 10 years)?

      A name mismatch on your deed shouldn't affect future sales since you can reconcile your name and identity using your marriage certificate and government-issued ID.

      Reply
  17. Meyri

    Hi, my fiancée and I want to do a combination of both our last names. We live in the state of NJ. How can we go about this?

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      Hi Meyri. A combination name change through marriage beyond regular hyphenation isn't supported in New Jersey.

      Reply
  18. Marla

    I changed my name when we got legally married in December 2022 on our marriage license. How long do I have before I need to change my name with social security and therefore my drivers license and passport?

    Thank you

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      Hi Marla. You can wait to change your name as long as you like, but take into account the social security two-year standard that adds additional ID requirements beyond your marriage certificate if you wait to change your name more than two years after getting married.

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    2. Pamela Sztyblewsky

      The passport office has no such time limitations. Trust me, I have it changed just fine on my passport and that's the ONLY thing I have as proper ID as a result.

      The problem you will have is walking around the US with literally ONLY a passport in your correct, legal name. Trying to change everything else using that passport, will prove damn near impossible as it has for me.

      Reply
  19. Pamela Sztyblewsky

    I have an "odd" situation, I guess. I married overseas and changed it on the Passport first, it's now been "several" years ago. I've been fighting the Social Security Administration ever since I got back into the States.

    I went in in-person to a field office and they refused to accept my US passport as proof of identity, saying that "identity" did not include my NAME.

    I've looked up the Social Security Administration's OWN rules and it states that the "number holder's" name must match the name on our primary identification document, especially the Passport.

    My problem is that the Passport office "file" contains the last copy of the marriage certificate because my bag with all my "papers" in it got stolen overseas, and it will take "forever" to request another one through the Embassy of that country.

    This is now going on YEARS that I'm sitting here with no social security number I can use, because everything I apply for with my Passport, gets "name mismatch" when they check with the social security assholes.

    So I have no ability to get a driver's licence, no food stamps, no income whatsoever, and no job (well nothing will hire me anyway but that's another story).

    I am limited to living with only the things that don't check with social security. So, almost nothing.

    In the absence of a marriage certificate they're required by law to honour the passport, and I'm contacting my Congressmen and Senators and going to sue the Social Security Administration if this keeps up for more YEARS and YEARS.

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      Hi Pamela. The Social Security Administration needs two primary documents to change your name: ID and a name change event document.

      Your marriage certificate would have served as your name change event document, but since it was stolen and you're unable to obtain another copy within a reasonable length of time, you don't have an authorizing document to change your name.

      Here are a couple workarounds to consider:

      1) Some states will record a foreign marriage certificate within state records and issue you a state-level marriage certificate. However, you don't have a foreign marriage certificate to show them, so you can inquire if they'll accept a sworn affidavit attesting to the facts of your situation.

      You may need the assistance of attorney to draft the correspondence. This option is the most brittle approach.

      2) Get remarried and obtain a new marriage certificate. For instance, New York State will issue you a regular marriage license to get married a second time to the same person, even if you are married now. It's not considered a vow renewal, but an actual marriage.

      They would issue you a new certified marriage certificate referencing your new name after marriage. You could use your passport as ID when applying for the license.

      3) Petition the court for a general adult name change and use the eventual court order to change your name with social security and everybody else. Your court order would be your new "name change event" document, and you wouldn't need to depend on your missing marriage certificate for name change purposes.

      There's time and expense that comes along with petitioning the court, but that varies per state. Some states make it easy by not requiring newspaper publication of a name change notice. Some don't even require hearings.

      But there is a filing fee. However, many states will waive the filing fee for financial hardship reasons.

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  20. Allison Marie

    Hi, We have an odd situation. I had my name changed with the SSA, but I had to make a correction due to a spelling error. After this, I got pregnant and sick with COVID.

    Now, the 60 day window in my state to update my name with the DMV has passed. Will I be able to update my license now? What do I do?

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      Will I be able to update my license now?

      You will still be able to update your driver's license past the expected notification deadline. But your state may impose a minor fine for waiting too long when you go to update your license.

      Reply
  21. Brianna

    Hi, question about passport…

    I got married July 2022 but haven't changed my last name yet because we're taking a honeymoon on Aug 2023. I didn't want it to interfere with the passport.

    If I ended up changing my last name now, would I have to change it on the passport too? Or can I just leave my maiden name on my passport and still travel with it even though I changed my last name with everything else (ssa,dmv,etc)?

    Or will it flag my passport when I go to travel because my last name has changed but I didn't change it in the passport?

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      Hi Brianna. The name on your passport can differ from what appears on your social security card or driver's license. You can keep your passport in your maiden name and change it after your honeymoon. Just make sure your airline tickets match the name on your passport.

      If you're questioned about the name inconsistency between your driver's license and passport, you can show a copy of your marriage certificate.

      Reply
  22. Aubrey Pavuk

    I got married in January. I added my husbands name to my name with a hyphen. I changed my name on my Social Security card and on my drivers license.

    My passport says my old name without the new hyphenated name. I want to travel and use my passport without the updated name change. Will this be an issue?

    Reply
  23. Sheri

    When I signed my marriage certificate, I wasn't asked about changing my name, so I signed the certificate with my maiden name. Will it this be a problem?

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  24. Genesis

    Hi! So, I changed my name with the SS office in January and then moved states. I never got a chance to change my license with my new name and address within 60 days, which is what my new state requires. Will this be a problem? If so, what will happen?

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      Hi Genesis. It wouldn't apply in your new state if you hadn't yet obtained a license from your new state. It's no longer relevant to your old state as you're no longer a resident there.

      Reply
  25. Renee Taylor

    I got married just over 15 years ago, and have been considering changing my last name to hyphenate my and my husband's last names. Can I still use my marriage certificate for changing it, or do I have to do it through the court? I live in Florida.

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      Can I still use my marriage certificate for changing it, or do I have to do it through the court?

      Your marriage certificate is still good for name change purposes.

      Reply
  26. Olga

    XS Hi Tyrone,

    My husband and I were married 11 years ago and I never legally changed my name. We had a honeymoon to Europe and I was confused and concerned about complicating it with the name change. So here I am wondering what to do next – it’s been so long! Do I need to go through the courts and do a name change or can I just use my marriage certificate and go through the process like a newlywed.

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      Hi Olga. You would still use your marriage certificate to change your name, even after many year have passed.

      Reply
    2. Ann

      Hi Olga! Have you started the name change? I've been married for 6 years and haven't changed my last name. Now I'm anxious and nervous om what to do because I want to apply for naturalization for me and the kids.
      Thank you. Stay safe!

      Reply
  27. Jasper

    Would I be able to change my first name as well as last when applying for the pre-application? When searching it up it sounds vague just saying "name" and not specifying anymore.

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      Hi Jasper. You cannot change your first name through marriage. You must petition the court instead.

      Reply
  28. Jason

    My ex got remarried about 6 years ago. She legally changed her name but didn't tell her doctor or pharmacy and is still getting controlled substances with her old last name.

    Does this fall back on the pharmacy and/or doctor? What if she gets pulled over and they see that it's an alias name? Is it illegal to have a narcotic prescription without her legal name being on it?

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      Does this fall back on the pharmacy and/or doctor?

      The patient.

      What if she gets pulled over and they see that it's an alias name?

      She could reconcile the difference by explaining, showing ID in her prior name, or showing a legal name change document of her name transition.

      Is it illegal to have a narcotic prescription without her legal name being on it?

      It's up to the pharmacist to run the script. If they know her, they'll exercise reasonable discretion.

      Reply
  29. Kathleen

    So this following is in the above article. So what is the date of the name change for a passport then? That question is on the passport renewal form. Do I put my wedding date or the date I went to the SSA for name change?

    "Do you know when the name change process starts?
    Upon marriage, divorce, or court petition.
    Updating your social security card.
    Updating your driver's license.
    None of the above.

    The answer is split:
    None of the above for passports.
    Updating your social security card for everything else."

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      Hi Kathleen. Your date of marriage is your name change date.

      Reply
  30. Ann

    We got married in a foreign country in 2017 and til now I haven't changed my last name to his. When I renewed my foreign passport in 2021, I asked to keep the maiden name since I haven't changed my last name yet. The reason why I didn't change it before was my cousin told me she experienced some complications when they ask for documents or IDs and the names are mismatched.

    Can I still go to SSA office and ask for a name change? Then DMV next, the bank and so on?

    Thank you.

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      Can I still go to SSA office and ask for a name change? Then DMV next, the bank and so on?

      Yes, you can still change your name after marriage the standard way years after getting married. Just make sure your marriage certificate is a certified copy.

      If your marriage certificate is not in English, the SSA may take longer to process your application while awaiting translation.

      Reply
  31. Mitch

    Hi. I got married Nov 2021 and changed my last name same with my partner, as seen on our marriage certificate. I already changed my name on SSA (2021) and currently, I am in the process of renewing my greencard with my married name on it.

    The thing is, I still have my maiden name on my driver’s license, IRS, previous W-2, passport, assets, bank, CC, and even on my employment papers. I also just moved to a new state. As of now, I want to keep using my maiden name.

    1. Is it possible for me to just keep on using my maiden name?
    2. Will I get any problem with green card renewal (like denial) and application for naturalization in the future?
    3. What advice can you give me regarding this?

    Thank you.

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      Hi Mitch. You can continue using your maiden without fear of denial. During the naturalization process, you can ask the USCIS official who conducts your interview to complete the Petition for Name Change form, assuming you decide to change your name after all.

      Reply
  32. Judie

    Hello! I recently got married, in Illinois where I live, and I've been trying to figure out what I want to do about changing my name.

    Would it make my life difficult and complicated if I adored my maiden name as my middle name and took my husbands last name? I've heard mixed reviews on this subject. Any tips or tools? TIA!!

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      Would it make my life difficult and complicated if I adored my maiden name as my middle name

      Replacing your middle name with your maiden name is one of the cleaner, well-balanced options. This allows you to maintain a bridge with your family name.

      Reply
  33. Jana

    Hello! I have an unusual situation – my mom gave me an unfortunate middle name when I was born and I filled out the paperwork to get it changed over a year ago. Just the middle name. I completely forgot about it (a lot of bad stuff happened, keeping me distracted) and my fiancé and I have decided to just go ahead and go to the courthouse next month.

    I never changed my name with social security, I only have a certificate showing my name change. Will I need to complete this name change process before getting married? Or can I "start over" in a sense because we are both planning to change our last names to something completely different, and can I then only report one name change to social security once I get married. As if that first certificate doesn't exist?

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      Hi Jana. Yes, you can ignore your first name change document, which you never used to effect a name change with any institution or on any credential.

      Reply
  34. Christina Haugh

    Hi, I got married last year and I still haven’t updated my drivers license with my address and name change. What penalties will I receive when I go in and change it today?

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      What penalties will I receive when I go in and change it today?

      It varies. Can you specify the state where you will renew?

      Reply
  35. Jules

    Hi, I got married almost 6 years ago and just never changed my last name even though I put it down on the marriage certificate. We were going through a lot of personal life stuff so it never took priority in my mind.

    Up until recently, I thought maybe I should change it finally but don't know how to go about it or if they'll even let me at this point. Is there any way I can still change my last name here in California?
    Thank you.

    Reply
  36. Ana

    Hi. I have a question. I got married on May 26. And my passport was issued less than a year (Aug 30). So, today (Aug 9) I changed my last name and is gonna take two weeks to get my new social security card.

    Can I send my documents by mail on August 28 and still applying for the free renew? Other question, can I send my documents now? I have my marriage certificate and a letter of SSA saying my new name and that my new card is gonna arrive in two weeks, or should I wait?

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      Hi Ana. You can change the name on your passport right now, even before receiving your new social security card by mail.

      The Social Security Administration and U.S. State Department passport office are not dependent upon each other, so you can renew documents handled by the respective organizations at the same time.

      Reply
  37. Ella

    So I got married back in Feb 2019, it was a destination wedding outside of the US. I have not yet been able to change my name or even change my SS info to state that I am married but I have been filing as joint/married every tax season.

    When COVID hits and everything shuts down, everything kind of been set in the back burner. Now my question is, can I still change my name/register that I am married? Will that create problems when filing taxes even though I've been filing under joint/married?

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      Now my question is, can I still change my name/register that I am married?

      Yes, you can still change your name after several years have passed since you married.

      Will that create problems when filing taxes even though I've been filing under joint/married?

      You're fine as long as the name on your tax filing matches what the Social Security Administration has on file. This is the case whether you file married filing jointly or married filing separately.

      Reply
  38. Michelle

    I am going through a divorce in FL and will be going back to my maiden name. I have international travel plans a few months out. There is a good change the divorce decree will be issued not long before I travel.

    My best bet is to wait to start the name change process with the SSA until after I get back and there will be no issues since it will be well within the two-year window, correct? And thank you for clarifying this!!

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      My best bet is to wait to start the name change process with the SSA until after I get back

      What matters is your passport name change, not your social security card. You could change both in parallel. But if you'd prefer to complete your entire name change without a gap, waiting until after your travels conclude makes sense.

      Reply
  39. Lisa L

    I live in New York. I am getting married in about two months. I love my maiden name and I am the last in my family with my name. That combined with the hassle of it all, I am unsure if I want to hyphenate my name with my future husband's or not.

    At the and time I want to show him respect as he really wants me to change my name. Any suggestions?

    If I change it on the marriage certificate, is that still considered a legal name change if I don't change it anywhere else?

    Is it OK to just change it on the certificate and use my married name in some situations but leave my maiden name on government records?

    And if I do change it with SSA and DMV, I assume I have to change it at work as well, is that correct?

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      If I change it on the marriage certificate, is that still considered a legal name change if I don't change it anywhere else?

      No, that does not constitute a legal name change.

      Is it OK to just change it on the certificate and use my married name in some situations but leave my maiden name on government records?

      Yes, you could keep your maiden name legally, while using your married name socially and informally.

      And if I do change it with SSA and DMV, I assume I have to change it at work as well, is that correct?

      Yes, workplace HR needs your legal name to match what the SSA and IRS have on file.

      Reply
  40. Roberta W.

    Hi, hypothetical question: what if a couple was married 13 years ago and neither understood the need to change neither SS# or ID? Is there an issue for them to look forward to or no? What penalties are out there of the different states like Alabama, Louisiana, and California?

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      Hi Roberta. If this hypothetical couple never initiated a name change on their social security card or state-issued ID (e.g., driver's license, REAL ID), then there would be no repercussions, regardless of where their marriage took place, where they have lived, or where they now live.

      Reply
  41. Sara

    I got married 5 years ago. I did not change my name. I would now like to change my name. I would like to add my husband’s name since we have had kids.

    I plan to hyphenate his last name to my maiden name. Is this possible? And if it is, will it effect my kids birth certificates or can they remain with my maiden name? Would they then need birth certificates with my new last name? Located in VA

    If this changing my last name is possible what is the first step? I have a certified marriage certificate but am uncertain what to do next.

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      I plan to hyphenate his last name to my maiden name. Is this possible?

      Yes, you can hyphenate.

      And if it is, will it effect my kids birth certificates or can they remain with my maiden name?

      Your children's birth certificates can either share your hyphenated name or your maiden name. It's up to you to specify.

      If this changing my last name is possible what is the first step?

      Please take a look at the name change how to article.

      Reply
  42. Gokce

    Hi, I am getting married and I want to keep my name. What should I do to keep it? Who do I tell? Thank you.

    Reply
    1. Tyrone Jones

      Hi Gokce. You don't need to tell anyone or do anything if you're getting married and not changing your name. Take not action and your name will remain the same.

      Reply

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