Use Your Maiden Name Even After a Name Change
Whether you're changing your name to better align with your new spouse's and kids' names or because you like the new name better, there may be situations where it makes sense to continue using your maiden name.
You could achieve the best of both worlds where:
- You change your name after marriage.
- You continue to use your maiden name when it suits you.
Let's explore real-life circumstances where it helps to use your maiden name over your married name, whether that's sometimes or even most of the time.
1. In professional contexts
If you've invested time building your maiden name into your professional identity, don't discard it arbitrarily: consider the consequences and prepare for the transition.
Even after changing their name through marriage, many people still use their maiden names in professional contexts. You can join the ranks of those who find this approach beneficial.
It's doable without conflict, while ensuring everything is legal and compartmentalized: your maiden name over here and your married name over there, coexisting peacefully.
Our online name change kit can help you complete this transition while you prepare for a future where your maiden name remains prominent in your life.
Everyone knows you by your maiden name
Consider the numerous places your maiden name is firmly plugged into the world, extending far beyond your diploma, professional license, or general reputation.
Your colleagues, customers, and clients know you by your maiden name. Your authored articles, references, and referrals from others are linked to your maiden name.
Your professional network converges around your name, weaving a web of recognition. Like Coca-Cola, you've covertly and masterfully branded your name throughout your life.
But now that you're married (or soon-to-be married) and have changed your name, it's like a burst of lightning, short-circuiting these connections.
Like X, formerly known as Twitter, you've warped and fragmented your brand recognition and must carry the "formerly known as" millstone around your neck.
But you might not have to undergo a complete reset…
Starting over with your married name
Changing your maiden name severs your network of associations until you assimilate your married name. Yet, like refreezing melted ice cream, it's never quite the same after.
Traces of your maiden name will persist, etched into your birth records, and deeply embedded in genealogy databases, as well as in the memories of everyone you've met.
While you can change your driver's license, you can't erase the historical record. Your yearbook is just one permanent testament to the past.
Yet this article isn't focused on downsides and rejecting your married name, but on completing the transformation while still placing your maiden name at the forefront.
Let's delve into putting your maiden name to work…
Navigating the tricky transition
Here's one way dealing with name changes can get tricky: people still send mail and write checks to your maiden name even after you've switched to your married name.
The opposite also is true: checks made out to your married name are problematic when you haven't yet updated your bank records away from your maiden name.
A name mismatch might disrupt check cashing, deposits, and direct payments, including those from employers or potential IRS tax refunds.
Prepare for the inevitable: talk with your bank and make sure they'll allow deposits in both your maiden and married names.
While you're at it, if you have a hyphenated name, go the extra mile by ensuring your bank accepts three name variations:
- Your maiden name
- Your hyphenated name
- Your spouse's surname only (just in case)
If you're well known by your bank's staff, an informal acknowledgment may be enough. But it's better to have an official notation recorded in your account that applies globally.
You should repeat this routine with every new bank account you open.
Notifying your bank is an often overlooked name change task that merits elevated importance alongside updating your social security card but rarely receives the attention it deserves.
Tick off this name change to-do early, as soon as you have a certified copy of your marriage certificate available to show your financial institution.
Doing business in your maiden name
Registering a DBA in your maiden name is useful when you need to conduct official business using your maiden name after changing it due to marriage.
FYI, DBA stands for "doing business as" and is synonymous with other terms, such as fictitious business name, assumed name, brand name, trade name, or trading name.
This approach ensures seamless continuity and legal compliance, sparing you the need to alter business cards, letterheads, signatures, or the brand you've cultivated.
Put simply, a DBA is a clever way for you to use your maiden name as a legal alias, nickname, or pseudonym for your business or company.
Using your maiden name as a licensed professional
Having the aforementioned DBA in your maiden name is not a sufficient replacement for failing to update the legal name on a professional, government-issued license.
For instance, if you're a registered nurse or doctor, the DBA approach won't work. Instead, ask your state's licensing board about using your maiden name professionally.
In this scenario, your state's licensing board would record your married name as your legal name and add your maiden name as an alternative name.
This allows you to continue working under your maiden name as your professional name, legally and transparently.
State regulations vary, so contact your state's licensing board to confirm if this practice is permitted and its potential impact on your DEA number, NPI, etc.
Consider requesting written confirmation from the board to acknowledge working under your maiden name as your professional name, despite your legal name change.
The preceding logic applies to other state-licensed professions too, such as dentists, pharmacists, psychologists, counselors, and physical therapists, among others.
2. In social contexts
Changing your name is a bold move, so it's understandable if you're reluctant to make the switch. After all, you've had the same name for your whole life… until now.
So, why bother changing?
Perhaps you're pragmatic in seeking a smoother experience with insurance and paperwork, or you may simply prefer to embrace the tradition of adopting your spouse's name.
In various situations, you don't necessarily have to strictly adhere to your legal name. Consider the context, exercise sound judgment, and avoid confining yourself to rigid boundaries.
For instance, when you're meeting new people who don't know your spouse and address you by your maiden name, there's no obligation to correct them.
Another scenario is when you're meeting with old friends; you might want to stick with your maiden name, as your longtime friends may have trouble adjusting to your new name.
Most of these events are social in nature, so there are no legal implications to worry about. Feel free to rotate between your maiden and married names whenever you like.
3. Legal disclosure obligations
When a security or background check gets ran against you, they'll ask for any previous names you've gone under to get a thorough look at your history.
Background checks are standard for job applications, volunteer positions, and credit checks. In these cases, you're usually legally required to provide your maiden name.
How can you tell if it's required? Check the form; if it has a section for listing other names you've used, you'll typically find instructions mentioning "such as maiden names."
Better safe than sorry, unless you're really set on leaving your maiden name behind. In that case, ask whoever's handling your paperwork if listing your maiden name is mandatory.
Your "legal name" is your "real name"
Your legal name is the name on your social security record, which is also the name you'll use for tax filings, job applications, and W-2 forms.
Beyond the talk of DBAs and social contexts, you must use your real name when filling out legal or government forms that asks for your name, current name, or legal name.
So if you've officially changed your name after marriage, but use your maiden name in social or formal capacities, your legal name and real name is your married name.
For instance, if you're an actor or singer with a stage name, you must sign your contracts and file your taxes using your real name. This is where artistry meets reality.
4. Paperwork not finished
One compelling reason to temporarily stick with your maiden name, whether you like it or not, is when you have paperwork and ID that still needs updating.
Before moving from your maiden name to your married name, the former will play a key role in preserving your legal identity before passing the baton.
When using your maiden name is unavoidable
Similar to methodically repairing a complex mechanical device, changing your name is a step-by-step process, addressing one document at a time to avoid feeling overwhelmed.
But you've also got to navigate when to strategically and temporarily hold onto your maiden name on a case-by-case basis, especially when time constraints or logistical challenges make updating everything in sequence impossible.
But sometimes the decision is out of your hands…
Certain documents are interconnected, requiring your names to match. In such cases, updating one ID necessitates changing others simultaneously.
For example, if your driver's license is in your married name, but your passport has your maiden name, international airline tickets must match the name in your passport.
Another example is if you've updated your social security card and nothing else, you must still file your taxes to match the name social security has on file.
Don't crack out of turn
Picture changing your name as a high-stakes game where you're juggling two identities: your maiden name and your married name.
Much like a con artist guards their words to avoid "cracking out of turn" and revealing their true intentions, you must master the art of smoothly transitioning from one name to the other.
Only when you've updated all your documents can you finally shift from your maiden name to your married name, preventing any identity "cracks" in your smooth changeover.
Managing multiple identities
You're managing conflicting identities, but each credential, from your social security card and driver's license to your bank accounts, allows only one name to prevail.
Keep a checklist of who has confirmed your name change. This will ensure that you never find yourself in an embarrassing situation where you're unsure which name to provide.
Before obtaining official approval for your new name, introduce yourself with your maiden name, and then explain that you're in the process of changing it.
This is often enough to satisfy requirements at places such as banks, as they understand the time-consuming nature of the name change process.
5. Haven't decided to go through with it
For some, the decision to undergo a name change is a can they keep kicking down the road, sometimes for years.
It's a procrastination that can make them wonder if they've missed an unspoken name change deadline that'll snare them with penalties or consequences.
Buying yourself some time
You might choose to slow-walk the process by updating your legal name on certain documents while you mull over whether you genuinely want to undergo a name change.
You might even welcome the idea of name change at first, only to backtrack when it comes to signing documents and introducing yourself with an entirely new name.
You're not alone if you're not sure if name change is right for you at this time. Maintaining the status quo is a tempting alternative to indecision.
You can legally change your name, but if you ever want to switch back to your maiden name, you can do so at any time. It's a reversible decision.
At a minimum, make sure your preferred name is chosen before applying for a marriage license to avoid your marriage certificate missing your married name.
Closing thoughts on using your maiden name
Some people think changing or keeping their name after getting married as a Hobson's choice. In reality, you have room to maneuver.
You can legally change your name and still use your maiden name at work or with friends. So, you're not boxed in. It's about what feels right for you in the moment.
If you're interested in starting the name change process, our online name change kit provides expert guidance through the transition.
Hi! I am going to apply for my marriage license in NYC soon. I'm wondering, if I change my name on the marriage license to my husbands name, but then never change it anywhere (SSN, passport, DL, banks, etc), can I just continue using my birth name on all of these? Is there any legal problems with this. Basically, is there a law that says I have to change my name on these forms and is it illegal for me to have taken my husbands name on the marriage license but not change it anywhere else?
Additionally, if several years after our marriage we decide to have children and I want to change my birth name to my husbands last name, so I then just apply to the SSN, Dmv etc. even though several years have passed since my marriage? Thanks!!
Yes.
No.
There's no such law.
Correct, although you may have to provide additional identity documentation, which typically isn't much of an issue.
HI,
So, I have been married for 18 years and have children with a traditional name change with my husband. I am now going back to work in my old profession (counseling) and there are reasons my maiden name would be less distracting in a counseling situation. I am about to get a part-time job at the place I want to work full time eventually and I am wondering if I can just go by my maiden name for clients or if I have to change it officially?
Hi Lori. That would depend on the requirements in your place of employment as well as any state regulations you'll have to abide by regarding the accurate disclosure of your identity.
Hello. I have a question. How hard would it be to go back to my maiden name even though I am still married. I need to do this for medical reasons. There is another person in the same city that I live in with the same first, middle, and last name as me and born the same year but different month and day. I still want to stay married obviously, just want to go back to my maiden name so there won't be any more confusion since we go to the same doctors, hospitals, etc.
Hi Dawn. Reverting to a prior name would require getting a court order. It wouldn't be hard to do.
Good day! Greetings with peace!
I am married since 2003 and got separated last 2010. I am currently working here in Palau, and I filed my Divorce here and got my Divorce Decree May of 2016. I am married in Phils to a Filipino Citizen also. My question is can I revert my passport name to my maiden name? And can I remarry a Palauan National here?
Thank you so much.. Looking forward for your response. God bless.
Hi Ms. Yes, neither should be a problem.
Valera,
I got married two months ago, I changed my name on my SSC, and I'll do the same on my DL. Now, I'm a permanent resident in the USA, and I want to keep my Maiden name until I become a citizen. Can I do that?
Hi Laura. Since you've updated your SS card, it's a good idea to report your name change and have it updated universally.
if my social security card is still in my maiden name but i have a state ID in my marriage name can i change my state id back too my maiden name?
Hi Tracey. It's unlikely unless you can provide a document verifying a name change from your married to maiden.
Hi Valera,
So just to confirm, if I change my last name on my marriage license to my husband. I have the option to change it? I'm getting married on May 21, 2016 and I decided to take my soon to be husband last name but don't want to go through the hassle of changing everything. Is that ok? or Am I required to? Just want to confirm that I dont have to if I don't want to
You've got it right. It is not required. You do not have to change your name regardless of what you specify on your marriage license.
I'm getting married in June, and I'm considering last name options. I want to take my husband's last name; however, professionally, I'm not sure what to do with my license. I've been known professionally by my maiden name for 10 years, and it would involve changing 2 state licenses and a national board license.
What do most people do in this situation?
Thank you
Hi Andrea. That's determined by your licensing boards. Some may allow you to continue using your professional name as long as their records are updated to log the name you've legally changed to. You'll have to get in contact with them to determine if your license(s) will need to be reissued.
I am getting divorced and want to go back to my maiden name. Unfortunately, not my first marriage. I have been married three times and each time took my spouses names. Do I need to list all of those names (and my original maiden name) on the petition (NYS) when asked "do you have any other names that you use?"? thanks!
Hi Kathy. Correct, list all your prior names.
We are in CA. We got married 6 years ago and I didn't change my last name. I have my professional life under my maiden name and all other legal docs, included our mortgage. Now I am pregnant and thinking to add my husband's last name as a second last name (no hyphenate, 2 last names; First, Middle, Maiden Married). I know I need Court order to add his last name. My questions are; 1) After I added his last name, Is it possible to use husband's last name(4 names) only on my US passport and everything else stay same (only my maiden name)?
2)Is there any confusing or conflict on the travel when my passport has First, Middle, Maiden Married name and DL has First, Middle, Maiden? Or buying the ticket with First, Middle, Maiden Married will solve the problem?
Hi Vivienne. You can do this. When you buy airline tickets make sure they match the name on your passport. Carry a certified copy of your court ordered name change document with you to answer any confusion that may arise over your passport name differing from your driver's license.
Thank you so much for your time and answer. Just want to clear; even though adding the husband's last name by court order there is no requirement to change any legal docs or loans. I can still continue use only my maiden name every legal docs and title and loan. Did I understand correctly?
Thanks in advance
Your understanding is correct.
Can I use my old ss card with my maiden name after divorce or do I have to go get a new card with my maiden name
Hi Crystal. If you hadn't changed your name on your social security card, meaning it's always been your maiden name, then you can continue using your card as-is. Your name has never been altered, so there's no point in getting a new card or notifying the SSA of anything. On the other hand, if did change your name with the SSA, then you should notify them of the change, and have them reissue you a card. Yes, it'll match the name on your previous card, but what's important is that their internal database record be up-to-date.
Hello, I'm a German citizen living in ca for over 10 years. I have my own green card and am ca 2 years away from applying for us citizenship. Before I can do so I have to apply in Germany for permission to keep my German citizenship / dual citizenship.
My us fiancé and I are getting married next month in CA. I have to choose what name I would like to carry on the CA marriage lisense. Now my issue is:
– I'm interested in taking on his last name so our future children will share a commun family name. But I do not want to change anything on ssi, dl, green card, passport, bank accounts until I am done with all German and American citizenship matters. Is it best to change it on the marriage lisense now but not change it anywhere else for about two years and then just change it when giving the oath during naturalization?
– in Germany we have a law that after a marriage abroad you do not have to use the nane on the marriage lisence if not filing for a change in Germany. The marriage however is legal. But then I would have a German passport with my maiden name before and after marriage. But once naturalized a us passport with my married name (not a combined name, only my husbands name). Is that possible? How would I go about names on plane tickets, visas etc?
I reside in the us and pay taxes only in the us.
Looking fwd to some deeper insides. I have done a lot of research but no info seams definite. Thank you.
Yes.
Yes, it's fine. When purchasing plane tickets from the U.S. and its territories, use the name on your U.S. passport.
I want to change my first and last name soon. I would like to know if I have to make my job aware of this? I don't plan on staying in this job for more than 3-4 months. I just want to avoid the questions that will be asked, as to why I changed my name. Practically everyone at my work loves to talk.
Hi Maggie. You'd want to notify your employer for tax-related purposes.
Thanks for the quick response.
Has anybody tried renewing their Philippine passport without filing a Report of Marriage? I was married last 2014 and now separated with my husband. We agree to get divorce. Do i still need to report our marriage? My passport will expire on May and I don't want to change my maiden name in my passport.
Thanks!
Hi Maine. Under Philippine law, the Report of Marriage is mandatory. If you don't file it, you're still considered "single" in the Philippines. When you renew your passport, you won't have to change your maiden name. Even if you had filed a ROM, you'll could still renew in your maiden name.
I've been married for 6 years now and never changed from my maiden name personally, professionally, legally, etc. My husband supports me 100% and loves my independent spirit (most of the time LOL!). We have no kids or passports, but do have joint accounts, policies, and tax returns, no problems. I don't regret my choice, but I do contemplate the idea of hyphenating sometimes, just to have both. I've seen info on how professional ladies with publicaions manage this, but have never seen my particular concern addressed. I have professional licenses, malpractice/liability insurance, and state/ federal insurance/billing credentials, etc. If I did legally hyphenate my last name, does anyone know what the impact is on those things? Does it cause suspicion, fraud inquiries, billing reviews, etc. The idea of that is overwhelming, both personally and professionally. Anyone with any insights?
Hi Kiya. You'd have to contact your state's licensing board to determine if you 1) must notify them of a name change, 2) are required to have your licenses reissued with your updated name or is notification only to update their internal records sufficient. For insurance and government purposes, you'll likely have to use your legal name.
Professional people undergo name change all the time, so the main thing you'll be dealing with is how to achieve some continuity—bridging your maiden name history with your hyphenated.
I am a lawful permanent resident and need to renew my green card soon. My marriage certificate has my maiden name and I still use my maiden name on my ID, SS, bank cards etc. Now, I need to renew my green card and I'd like to have my husband last name instead of mine. Do I need to have a new marriage certificate with my husband's last name before renewing my green card? Thanks.
Hi Lisa. Your current marriage certificate should suffice.
Hi. I was married in NYC and hyphenated my last name with my husband's. I have never used this name on anything and have exclusively used my maiden name as I always had – At work, taxes, drivers license, passport, health insurance, pension, etc. Could this cause me any difficulty or my husband if he needs to collect my SS or pension? Thank you.
Hi Lisa. If you haven't changed your name with the SSA, it's a non-issue.
Hi, I'm really hoping you can help me! I've been married for six years, and took my husband's last name legally. All of my documents, SS card, bank accounts, paychecks, insurance, etc. are under that name. But I continued to go by my maiden name at work – this is my second marriage, so I've already been through the "please note that after Monday my new name will be X" process twice with all of my business contacts. They have known me as Andrea Maidenname for more than 10 years at this point. Also, I work at the same company as my husband, and I would prefer that people think of me as my own person rather than as "X's wife".
All of a sudden the senior management at my company (HQ in Europe) has started referring to me in mass emails as "Andrea Maidenname (Marriedname)". This isn't, or wasn't, I guess, widely known information, and I complained about my marital status being made public. They informed me that from a legal standpoint, because my legal name is my husband's name, they have to make it known. Is that true??? Because it feels to me like someone just wanted to make sure everyone knows who I'm married to.
Any advice you have would be appreciated.
Hi Andrea. This appears to be a HR issue specific to your company. You can ask this be overridden within their database/software. I assume most companies would like to keep their longtime employees happy and not get into a dispute over the display name in an automated email distribution. You may have to put it in writing to explain your case. If they need something to go on to justify the change within HR, perhaps you can suggest the use of an alias as a compromise? For instance, you can register a fictitious business name (e.g., doing business as Andrea MaidenName). This may give them an "out" to accept the change, for your particular case. Would they accept this?
If they're not willing to bend on this, you could legally change your name back to your maiden, which is something I assume you'd prefer to avoid.
Hi,
I have this question for you. I am an american citizen by birth who married a Saudi citizen. We have been married 15 years. I took his last name at the time of marriage and have been using it since. He obtained his green card shortly after that. Recently, he became a US citizen and was offered the option to change his last name. Since our last name is quite complicated, we decided to shorten it. I am panicking now. I am not sure if this name change just applies to him only.
I had assumed that it would apply to both of us and did not give it much thought. We have a document that was signed by the judge at his citizenship ceremony last week that shows the new name change.
I know that he will need that document when changing his last name. I had planned to take our marriage certificate that shows my maiden and our married last name, my birth certificate, and drivers license with my married name, and of course my husband's new name change document with me to the SS office in attempt to change my name as well. Does the name change apply to me too?? So scared. I don't want to have different last names.
Hi Val. The name change option only applies to your husband.
Ok thank you.
Hi,
I got married in 1996, got separated in 2000( not annulled yet). In 1998 I used my married name in my college documents(went back to college late) but never changed my passport,drivers license, sss, health insurance, bank account etc. would this be a problem?
Hi Jacqueline. Unless there was an attempt to commit fraud or evade legal/monetary obligations, then I wouldn't look at it as being a problem. It's more a matter of do you need or want your college documents updated to reflect your legal name?
I notice that the DVLA state that I must inform them of any name change. I got married 7 weeks ago but I can't get used to the new name and I am certainly not ready to change it on official documentation. Am I still required to inform the DVLA and is there a time limit? All other documentation is in my maiden name. Please advise.
Since you haven't changed your name, there's nothing to notify them about. There's nothing you need to do. If you ever do change it (a week/month/year later), then notify them.
Im in south carolina. I got married 2 yrs ago. I ran to ss office and dmv to drop my maiden and gain my marital. Now i want to add my maiden name to my marital name. First middle maiden -last. Can i? How do i go about? And when i sign documents do i sign first maiden-last. Or can i sign first and last? Thanks in advance!!
Yes.
Court order.
Maiden-last for legal documents. Alternative spelling for less consequential documents.
I have a question on what the best legal option is! I want to keep my maiden name professionally as I have built a lot around it now, but I want to be able to use my fiance's last name for like travel and medical continuity. Is it better to change my middle name to my maiden name and use his last name, or to have 2 last names without a hyphen? I am trying to find the least confusing way to go about still using my maiden name and can't seem to find many answers…
Thanks
Hi MegO. Whichever name sequence/construction you choose won't have any legal bearing. It's best to pick whichever legal name you prefer, while you continue to use your established maiden name professionally.
Thank you!
Hi,
I got married 11 years ago and would like to hyphenate my last name.
How can I do this?
I live in CA.
Hi Tahli. Certified marriage certificate, to SSA, to DMV, etc. Take a look at the procedure article for further info.
I have a question. I just got married and put my maiden name as my middle name and my husbands name as my last name on my marriage certificate. I also lost my drivers license. Can I get a new DL with my maiden name, since my college financial office told me to wait a year to change my name with FAFSA because it could be a very long complicated mess? Is it ok to legally use my maiden name for a year before changing it?
Yes, it's fine.
Even in MA where there's a specific box that you right your surname after marriage?
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Hi Rose. I'm not sure what box you're referring to. If you're going to wait to formally change your name, then your maiden name will remain your current legal name. That's the name you'll use on everything.
Hi,
I recently applied for a marriage certificate in NY State. We have 60 days to officiate the license. My question is at the time I was asked if I want to keep my maiden name. I wasn't sure so I said yes.
We have our ceremony this coming week. I am contemplating now changing my maiden name to my fiance's last name. Would that be a problem. The license has not been certified yet since we are not married yet. Would a new license have to be filled out with my fiance's last name or can the town clerk just cross our my maiden name and input my fiance's name?
Thanks.
Hi Jane. It doesn't prevent you from adopting a different surname later on.
I have resumed using my birth name…maiden name. I am divorced. I recently decided to go back to my birth name. I spoke to immigration some years ago they said my passport could continue on in my married name even if I went back to using my maiden name. That I can use both/ either name.
In 2011 whilst still using my married name I signed enduring power of attorney documents for my aging parents. Since then I have stopped using my married name and resumed my maiden name, the registrars office said I needed certified copies of both my birth certificate and marriage certificate to prove my birth name (my original name) and the marriage certificate to prove my married name (my alias name – which is how they referred to it), and now, my current name which is my birth name…
So my question now is – I have just signed realtor documents using my birth name for the listing of my parents home as they are now both in a nursing home. However on the Enduring Power Of Attorney documents, I am listed as per my married name. Is it necessary for me to change the name on the EPA documents in order for the real estate listing to be legal ? This is an urgent matter as the listing is impending now. Many thanks for your earliest reply, Sandra
Hi Sandra. It shouldn't be an issue, as 1) your identity wouldn't/shouldn't be in question, and 2) any name change timeline can be documented. Still, it's a good idea to ask the realtor or attorney if you need to update any documents.
Hi! My question is, how difficult is it to add my maiden name back into my legal name. Either with a hyphen or just in addition to. I want to still use my new married name but regret not hyphenation or just adding on the married name to the maiden name. Thanks!
Hi Heather. If you've already changed you name, you'll have to go through a court-ordered name change to modify it again.
I got married on in 2013. My husband is seeking divorce. The marriage license says my maiden name. All my documents has my maiden name. My SS Card, my driver's license, bank statements, and mail. He summons me with a last of his name. Example if my maiden name is Jessica White. He summons the divorce under his last name of Johnson. Example of his name is David Johnson. Can I sign the divorce papers with the last name Jessica Johnson or do I need to change all my documents to Jessica Johnson in order to sign the divorce complaint.
Hi Alia. The papers may need to be corrected and reserved. It's best to contact an attorney or consult with legal services regarding your situation.
what if marriage certificate is signed maiden-married but no documents changed from maiden.. how would he issue her name on divorce papers?
Maiden.
Hi,
I got married in California in October 2015. On the marriage certificate I changed my middle name to my maiden name and took my husband's last name. I have a few questions. First, does changing my name on my marriage license mean that I HAVE to change my name at social security, passport, etc? If not, then will this affect us if we file joint tax returns, decide to buy a house, etc.? I'm feeling as though I don't want to go through with the name change anymore. Finally, what is the process to go back to maiden name on my marriage certificate?
Thank you,
Sheena
No.
No, it won't affect either of you.
You don't have to go through with a name change, regardless of your prior intention.
Marriage certificates can only be amended for things such as clerical errors. It's considered a static, historical document. A snapshot in time. If you don't plan to change your name, you can just ignore the document.
I got married to a man I found out later was a ward of the state. I showed my marriage license to change my name on my drivers license and social security card but didn't change it on anything else. Is my legal name still my maiden name or will I have to get a court order to change it back? What did I need to show to have it changed?
Hi Kristin. Your legal name is the one you changed it to. You would have to go to court to return to your maiden.
Hello, my name is yajaira. I got married a little over a year ago. I changed my last name on my social security card but not on my passport or ID. I want to change my name back to my maiden name on my social do you think there would be a problem? Even though I am not divorced?
Hi Yajaira. It wouldn't be a problem, although you'll have to present a court order to the SSA in order for them to change it back.
Hi I'm getting married next month and I'm hyphening my name with my soon to be husband's name. I'll be using his health insurance but was wondering if I could use his last name on Health insurance card only or do I have to use mine and his? I'd just rather use his.
Hi Myra. Both names would be safest, to avoid complications.
If I never assumed my husband, when filing for divorce do I put my maiden name on the prisoner or my married last name?
Hi Gigi. Maiden name.
Hi there,
I was married in 2012 and am currently filing a Dissolution. The paperwork asks me to put my full name on different forms. My marriage license and certificate are signed in my maiden name. However, the only document I changed my last name to his last name was my Social Security card. Do I now need to use my maiden name or new name on the dissolution forms? Like I said, all other forms are in maiden name.
Thanks!
Hi Katelyn. The legal name on your SS card, which is your married name.
Hi I am applying to work with a company and they are assking for my ssc and my id but my id has my married name and my ssc has my maiden name would it still work
Hi Raylene. It depends on the employer. It's not an uncommon inconsistency. If they need additional documentation that explains why your name has changed on your ID, you can make it known that you can provide proof of marriage by supplying a copy of your marriage certificate.
good day,
i am applying to work abroad this year, but I'm thinking to still use my maiden name instead of my marriage name, but in the application for i wrote down that i am already married and also my husband's name. I haven't change my legal Id's (SSS, Passport and so on) would it be ok legaly.
Thanks
Hi Lyn. It's not so much a question of legality, as you're not trying to commit fraud. There are many people who use their maiden name for work purposes, and their employer is aware of it. It's just important that your employer know about this and properly accommodates your preference when it comes to things like distributing salaries (whether by check or direct deposit) and tax filing. They need to use your proper legal name, even if you're going by a previous name or alias.
Your situation is the inverse—using your married name as your work name, even though you haven't yet changed it from your maiden name. In this instance, you can present a certified copy of your marriage certificate to document your marriage and serve as intention to change your name. Or, to at least act as a bridge between your maiden and married name. So, your maiden name would still be your legal name, while your married name is more of an alias. At least until you formally change it.
Hi, I have a quick question. My wife lost her soc sec card with her married name. We found her old one with her maiden name. Can she still use her old one for ID, although she did change it with SS?
Hi Chris. It's not certain if using a name mismatched version of the old card would be acceptable, as that's determined on a case-by-case basis. If an institution you're dealing with (e.g., mortgage company) needs to physically see the card, can the name mismatch be explained to their satisfaction? Maybe yes, maybe no.
It's rare that a social security card is necessary as a form of ID. Documents such as a driver's license or state/military ID is more useful for such purposes. It's more important for you to know the SS number rather than having it in your possession at all times. Still, if you're certain you'll need it for physical ID, you should just get it replaced. There's no fee, and you're allowed up to 10 lost/stolen replacements in a lifetime.
i got married 2001 my name on my married certificate says my first name maiden last name and Than husband last name at the end. i haven't changed my name on anything not ss card or anything i don't want to change my name keep my maiden name. Is that ok?. Because i haven't changed my Name i haven yet reported i'm married and im on ssi. We are in and agreement separation on document.between the two of us. . after being so long not reporting it is that a problem?. even if i didn't change my name . what do you suggest. If i report it now there will be a penalty right?.will they find out even though i haven't change my name.? The thing is i don't wanted to lose my ssi. what you think.
Hi Patty. Name change is always optional. The fact that you chose to never change it is a non-issue.
Hi Valera Thank you for your response, my second issue is i didn't report i was married to ssi fear of loosing my benefits, on my married certificate my name has last name as maiden name than husband last name, as i stated before i'm using my maiden name never change it. Can they find out i'm married? Can they penalty me ?
It's possible that they will find out. There can be penalties if SS applicants or beneficiaries submit incorrect information regarding income, living arrangements, or anything that might impact benefits.
I was married and changed my last name I was remarried the same day I divorced than divorced and remarried a few months ago I still have my social security under my name when first married what do i do to get where I need to be so I have been divorced 2 times and haven't changed it was rewarded my maiden name both times.
Hi Kristy. I'm not sure what you're asking. If you're looking to change your name, what are you trying to go "from" then "to"?
Hi
I had my drivers license changed to include my married name, but my ss card was never changed. Is it possible.for the dmv to just make my DL match my SS card?
Hi Shanice. It's doubtful they'll do a secondary name change without a court order.
Hi,I got married and changed my name with Social Security right away, so my new S.S. card has my married name.I live in Massachusetts.I recently got a new Ma. I.D. but it has my maiden name and the signature is my married name.I'm confused.
Hi Rachael. You can try to get your ID reissued with your married name. Bring in your updated social security card along with a certified copy of your marriage certificate.
Hi,
I found out that my middle name was never put on my official birth certificate. I am now about to get married and would like to add on my original middle name. Am I allowed to do this during the time I am changing my last name to my husbands? Or do I have to do something separate? I am in CA btw.
Hi Talia. If necessary, you can look into submitting a affidavit to amend a birth record to fill in missing info. If you can provide a photo ID showing your middle name, that should be sufficient. Birth certificates typically come into play for folks that don't have sufficient ID.
Hi,
Im a physician. So I've made a name for myself, and want all of my insurance contracts to continue. If I change my middle name to my maiden name and then take my husband's last name. Legally would my contracts still have to be honored even though they were signed using my maiden name? Or is that only If I take both last names and do the hyphen thing?
Hi Christina. Contacts would remain valid following a name change.
Hello. When I got married I dropped my middle name, took my maiden name as my middle name and added my spouse's name. At work, I want to use my maiden name as I've done all my work with that name and it has a good reputation attached to it. I'm in NYC. Is a DBA using my maiden name an option for me?
Many thanks.
Hi Elsa. If you're self-employed, the DBA is a viable option. If you're an employee, you'll want to get in touch with HR (or the equivalent) and let it be known how you prefer to be addressed in your work setting, while making sure their tax filings properly reference your married name.
is it illegal when married and woman takes husbands name and uses her old name to meet people and make social accounts etc? fraud? Living a double life? Sleeping around,?
Hi Michael. If someone is using a false identity for the express purpose of financially defrauding someone, that could be criminal. Think identity theft. But that's just fraud, in general. You'd get better insight consulting with an attorney to better understand where lines of criminality may be and if they're being crossed.
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Can i used my maiden name on my Public Id's even im already married? I still wanted to used my maiden name. my other Id's was name under my maiden name, but my sss id was name under my husband name.
Hi Venus. It depends on the ID type. If you've already updated your SS card, then you'll ultimately have to update certain IDs, such as your driver's license, to match. Even if you choose not to update that particular ID, when it comes time to renew your ID, it'll have to be done in your maiden name then.
I am getting married in March and going to Europe on our honeymoon in late May/early June. Is it okay to change my name on the marriage license and then wait to change all of my documents until after we get back? All of my travel reservations will be in my maiden name, so I just want to make sure it will be ok to wait to change all that until 3 to 4 months after I signed the marriage license taking my Fiances name.
Thank you,
Hillary
Yes, and it's sensible. You can consult the maiden name on passport post which elaborates on the matter further.
Hi Valera,
I am a permanent resident of the USA, I am married for the past six months now , I am going to apply for my citizenship do I need to put my husband last name or my name that's already on my permanent card and then change it to his later ?, please help…
Hi Tamara. You can change your name at the same time you apply for citizenship, which will also save you time and money.
Hi Valera,
I married my ex-husband in 2009. I took on his last name and had it changed with the social security office and on all my accounts and bank. However, in California the DMV allowed me to keep my Maiden name on my driver's license and just noted the married name on file.
My divorce recently finalized after several years and the divorce judgment allows me to revert back to my maiden name.
However, I plan on remarrying this year.
I realize I can easily get a new marriage license using my CA driver's license as it shows my maiden name already.
However, do I need to change it with the social security office back to my Maiden name before I can take on the last name of the person I am planning on marrying? (My social security card is still under by prior married name / Driver's license is under Maiden / Looking to marry and take on new last name.)
Thank you for all your help :)
No, that's not necessary. You can change it directly to that of your new spouse.
I recently got married and changed my name through Social Security. Do i have to change my DL, bank account, retirement and credit cards? I really wanted to keep my own name on my DL due to my profession.
Hi Michelle. Some DMV's require your driver's license be updated to sync with your social security card. There's nothing forcing you to update, but when it comes time to renew, they'll require your name match what's on your SS record. So, you'd be delaying the inevitable.
Hi I plan on getting married in a few months and I live In the state of Massachusetts If I keep my current last name and use it as my middle name and take my new husband 's last name do I still have to change my drivers license, SS#, bank accounts or can I keep it the way it is?
Hi Jenny. No, you don't have to update any of your documents. If you don't update your documents, then your name wouldn't be legally changed. You'd just be using your new married name informally.
Hi.When me and my husband got married I used my maiden name and did not opt to use his last name.But now I decided to go and use his last name and we are married now for 2 years.Whats the first thing I should do? And I don't know where to go? Pls help.thanks
Hi Cherry. First, get a certified copy of your marriage certificate. Then update your social security card, driver's license, passport, etc.
I already have a copy of our certificate but my last name is what I used..is that ok? Should I still love on with the social security and dMV process right away? Thanks so much!
Hi Cherry. In most cases, that's fine. There are some states (such as California) that require the new name on your marriage certificate equal what you plan to change it to.
Oh ok..gotcha!! Thank u so much!!!
Hello Valera.
I was searching for information on maintaining both my last names. I am someone who wants to have my own company under my maiden name as the company title, but I also wish to have both names appear on legal stuff.
For example : Sharon Church Mendoza (make-up new last name).
If it were possibleven to maintain both names legally, how would the order be?
Thanks you for your time.
Hi Sharon. Is either name meant to serve as your legal name? You may want to look into the use of a DBA for your business name.
Hi, I got married about 7 months ago, just after graduation from veterinary school. My diploma, licenses, etc for my profession are in my maiden name. I'm considering changing my name to my husband's before renewing my license (and we are moving to a new state in 6 months). Could I make my name First, Middle, Maiden HisLast? Would I always have to sign documents First Maiden HisLast?
We currently reside in Ohio and I was under the impression I cannot change my name to First, Middle Maiden, HisLast in this state. I'm not keen on hyphenation.
Would it be more of a headache down the road to have 4 names?
I'd like to continue using my maiden name professionally, and go by his last name for everything else.
I believe you are correct.
Would it be trouble for you? That's what ultimately matters.
You should notify the Ohio Veterinary Medical Licensing Board of name changes. You don't have to purchase a new certificate, but you can for a small fee. So, there doesn't appear to be anything preventing you from using your maiden name professional, when it comes to licensing issues, but you may want to contact your state licensing board to confirm.
Hi Valera,
I got married this past October, my husband and I are keeping it secret until we have a large family wedding. My questions is that I hyphened my last name and took his as well. I have yet to change my SSI card, DL, Passport, etc. I have decided that I will continue going by my maiden name for professional purposes, do I have to change all of my government ID's over yet or can I wait?
Hi Erika. You can wait until later.
my ex changed her name back to her maiden name after we divorced but she is still using my last name on all documents such as ssi and welfare. Is she allowed to still use my last name once she went back to her maiden name?
Hi Daniel. It depends on if she has officially changed it with the various institutions. For instance, if the divorce decree grants an order to restore the maiden name, that doesn't equate to her name legally changing. She could choose to maintain the prior married name indefinitely. She would have to update her record with the SSA for the name to be officially changed. Generally speaking, name usage/misuse can become a problem for an individual if there's an attempt to commit fraud.
Me and husband are to be officially divorced in february. Only thing I ever signed was the marriage license. I never had an urge to do my social security or license. Does that legally mean that I'm still married? I'm glad that I didn't. We was together for almost 11 years and would be married for 4 years in march.
No, when your divorce is finalized, that's the end of your marriage, legally speaking. What name you previously chose to take or not take has no affect on your marital status or divorce proceedings.
January 12, 2016
Hi Valera
I need some clarification, I just got my divorce decree and noticed it stipulates that I am " authorized to resume the use of my maiden name". Now I did not want to change my last name – and told my attorney so – because of the simple fact that every single piece of legal document that I own is in my married last name. This is from my naturalization certificate, bank accounts, pp, SS etc.
My question is..do I have to change all of my documents to my maiden name, or can I leave everything as it is?
You can leave everything as is.
Hi Valera,
I have my DL in my married name from one state & a State ID with my maiden name from a different state that i obtained after marriage. I use my maiden as a stage name & on a situational basis…I've even been employed under my maiden name while married at some point. Is there a problem in doing this?
Thanks.
Not at all. You use your legal name for government and legal contexts, and your maiden name for everything else.
Thank you for your response.
Another question: I have a real estate license in my maiden name. On my 1099 & when i'm receiving my check can it still be made out in my maiden? Will it affect my taxes? Or can i have my checks made out in my married name & have my 1099 list my maiden name?
Would it be safer to disclose both names at all times for instance:
Brandi married
(Licensed as Brandi Maiden)
Thanks.
Tax documents need to be in your legal name. If you can have checks cut in your preferred maiden name, that would be fine as long as your bank is able/willing to honor them. That's something that you'd work out with your bank and wouldn't affect what you choose to do with your taxes.
One thing to keep in mind, if you get tax refunds through direct deposit, some banks will reject it if there's a name mismatch. You'll want to clear that up with your bank if you think it might happen to you.
Hello,
I recently got married and changed my maiden name to my married name on my SSN, but now realized that it will be a big pain at work to change (I'm active duty military and about to move overseas). Is there any way I can keep my maiden name on everything else and/or change my SSN again?
Well, it'll eventually catch up with you. For instance, your driver's license needs to match what's on your SS card. Even if you don't update it immediately, when it comes time to renew, they'll want the names to sync or else your license won't be reissued. Also, when you update your name with the SSA, the IRS is auto-notified. So when you file taxes, you'll have to use your married name.
If you want to reverse the change and return to your maiden name, you'll have to petition the court to change your SS card again.
Hi Valera,
My significant other and I have a child but are not married. She has secured all the documentation to file to change her name to my last name legally in the county we reside. The documents require proof of birth certificate as well as ask her to provide her legal name as it appears on birth certificate. The problem is she was married before and changed her name from what her birth certificate says. We are unsure of which name to use when filling out the paper work and back ground checks for the name change. Should she list her maiden name or her married name? She is currently going by her ex-husbands last name but her reasoning for changing the name to the same as mine is as to match our child's last name. Thanks for any help.
When it asks for her current, or legal name, enter the name from her previous marriage. When it asks for birth name, enter the name on the birth certificate. The SSA keeps a history of name change, so they'll be able to map a birth name to any name revisions that took place during a person's lifetime.
Hi Valera,
I got married in February 2015. I took my husband's last name and dropped mine, but never really updated this name anywhere ( Bank, Credit cards, work, Social Security office etc). The name is only active on my green card. My maiden name is still on all these entities. While I am very happy in my marriage I regret dropping my last name. I feel alienated from my roots. I am planning on changing my name back, and I know it will take a while to have that updated on my GC.
1) Can I apply for a CA Drivers licence with my maiden name even though my green card and work authorization states married name.
2)Do I file a name change with the court, even though I really never updated it anywhere apart from USCIS when filing paperwork.
3)Do I have to change the name on my green card right away, or can I wait until I file to remove conditions on it?
In summary, only my GC has my married name. How do I change it back to my maiden name?
Thank You for all your help. Your blog is very helpful
The CA DMV uses the social security number/card for identity verification.
Doubtful, as you're reverting to the name already present on your SSN record. Explain that you regret the name change on your green card, and would like to return to your previous name, which matches all your other documents.
The name on your green card should match your legal name. It's best to contact USCIS to discuss the immediacy of your particular situation.
The following link explains how to replace your green card.
Thank You So Much!
Hi,
Actually I got married in 2014 Dec and changed by last name to by husband's last name. I recently updated my passport with my husband's last name but I haven't changed any other documents like Social Security, Driver License etc. Now the question I have is I want to keep my maiden name in professional level so is it ok? However, I am planning to change it in all other documents like Social Security, Driver License.
Thank You,
MC
Hi MC. Sure, that's a common approach taken for business reasons to maintain a professional identity without interruption.
Thank you for your response. So is there any time frame to change the name in other documents? Do I have to change the name before the tax season ends for this year ? How does it work?
Thank You,
MC
Do you mean the window of opportunity you have to complete a name change? If so, there is no time limit. If you're asking about turnaround time, then it varies. A social security card change name can take several weeks through the mail, or faster if you do it in person.
For your driver's license, you'll usually be provided a temporary, paper license while you wait for your real one to arrive through the mail.
Passport completion times vary based on the current backlog, and whether you opt for expedited service. Mail vs in-person makes a difference as well.
The season isn't central. You'll just want be certain the name you file with the IRS matches the SSA to prevent delays.
I was married on October 10th and changed my last name on my SS card on November 6th. How long does it usually takes for your marital status to update when your social is ran through the database?
Hi Shontell. Marital status isn't really a factor when it comes to changing your name.
Correct me if I'm wrong, so when my social is ran it only shows that my name has been changed not that I'm married?
Hi Shontell. That depends on who's running it and what for. If it's the SSA internally using marital status to determine something such as benefits, then yes, that could be a factor. If it's the DMV running it to see if there's a name match, then no, that won't come up.
It's for wage garnishment so would it be through SSA internally?
I am recently divorced. I let him bully me into taking his last name about 8 years ago but I never liked it, in fact I hate the name. This was my second marriage. I'd like to go back to my first husbands last name (not back to the husband, just his name). Professionally I've recently started to get people used to the name change by putting the 2nd husbands name in parenthesis and the first husbands name as my last name. For instance "Jill (SecondHusband) FirstHusband". Is there a better way to work my way back to using that last name? If I'm applying for a new job and I want to go by the FirstHusband name but realize they need the SecondHusband name to check my work history and background, is this an acceptable way to display my name on my resume? Hope that makes sense.
Hi Jill. You can use it informally as a sort of transition period, but if you're going to return to your first husband's name permanently, then you'll have to consider going through a court petitioned process to make it official. When it comes to your resume, you'll want to use your legal name, so that background checks can be performed.
Hope this makes sense?…. No, Jill this makes no sense at all!
Is a DBA an option for a straight forward business only or could I also use it as artist e.g. to be employed possibly with health insurance? – or would a maiden name as middle name make more sense? I'm basically looking for a solution to use my maiden name for all business and professional related issues without using my new legal last name. Thank you.
It's legitimate to register a DBA as an artist.
Thank you for taking the time. I know I can register a DBA as an artist as it is just a business in the end but I am wondering if I can also us the DBA to apply for jobs and be employed under the DBA?
Hi Ann. Your legal name would go on job applications. If a background check were to be run, it would lookup your full legal name and not your DBA. For employer tax filings, they'll use your legal name.
I am remarried 13 years now, but during my first marriage, I established a business under my former husband's last name. Although I legally changed my last name and now have my husbands last name, I still use my former name for the business. I was told by my ex that I needed to stop using his name. I have been using that name for almost 30 years and I am well known with that name. I cannot change it and jeopardize my business. Can he force me to change it? can se sue me? Because I told him that I will not change it. Thanks.
Its just a name its not trademarked. Its not his property. He is an idiot, tell him to get lost & good for you for being strong enough to do it! I can't wait to change back to my maiden!
I am getting married in May for the first time. I am 31 years old. When I get married can I keep my middle name, maiden name and add on my married name without using a hyphen? (Therefore 4 names) I like being associated by my maiden name because I am the last one in the family but I also want to be Mrs. Johnson. Is it legally ok to have all four?
Hi Sarah. It depends on the state, but it's certainly a viable option. Please keep in mind that your legal last name will be both names, with or without a hyphen.
Hi,
My husband and I have been married since 2010 in Massachusetts. On the marriage certificate, I changed my name to his. However, I have not updated my driver's license, social security, etc. to my married name and kept using my full maiden name for everything (work, taxes and my children's birth certificate) since my husband was ok with it. I just applied to get my citizenship and asked them to changed my maiden name from my dad's last name to my mom's. Would that be a problem since I "changed" my name to his on the marriage certificate? USCIS didn't ask me about that. Thank you!!
Hi Delanie. No, it's a non-issue.
I was recently married in Costa Rica and want to change my name but my marriage certificate from Costa Rica only has my maiden name (because women on Costa Rica do not change their name). I tried calling SSA but they indicated they are unable to make this change without photo ID with my new name. I don't know what to do!!!
Hi Kristen. Social security is the primary document that would change, so having ID in your married name prior to that would be difficult. Did you specify to them that you would be able to furnish a certified copy of your marriage certificate to serve as proof of marriage?
I changed my name after almost 3 yrs of marriage and regretred it immediately. One month later the name change caused a pile a problems professionally so I started using my previous make. I need to change my name back to my previous name. Is there any way to do this without costing a small fortune. It's been 3 months.
Hi Michelle. You will have to go through the courts to change it again. It will cost though.
I am considering adding my maiden name as a "second middle name", but the thought of updating all of my information is overwhelming. At a bear minimum, what do I have to change? Can I update Social Security but NOTmy driver's license, banks, medical insurance/records, etc.????
Hi Cindy. The bare minimum would be your SS card, although some states require you to notify the driver's license office of a name change. When it comes time for you to renew your license, you will have to do so in your new name. If you ever lose your license and need it reissued, it'll have to be in your new name. Still, it's a good idea to eventually sync your remaining records over time.
Hi there, ok so 2 years ago I got divorced but never dropped my ex husbands last name. (still use it on SSC, DL, Bank, Car insurance) got re married a year ago (while in the process of obtaining US citizenship) USCIS dropped my ex husband's last name and issued my certificate with my maiden name. My question is, do I need to go to court to start using my now husbands last name? I would also l9ve to drop my first name since I don't go by it, I go by my middle and last name? Thank you in advance…
Hi Karla. You can change your last name to your new husband's without going to court. Dropping your first name would require a court order.
I was previously married in 2002, divorced in 2010 and never changed my name back to my maiden name. I am now informally married and I want to change my name (from perry to Kelly). If I change it now and we get formally married in April will my new certificate say that I (using my married name) is getting married or will it say my maiden name?
Marriage certificates vary from state to state. Some will just list your current name, others will list the name you intend to change to. When you ultimately apply for your marriage license, you can specify the name you intend to change to, assuming the license form has a space to specify it.
Hello,
I am Italian and married a French citizen last March 2015.
We both live in New York City and both have a work VISA.
He is going to apply for a Green Card soon and I will apply with him as well.
When we first got married, I didn't change my last name.
Then we talked about it some more and I decided to go back to city hall and change my last name to my husbands name, so my marriage certificate now reads "NAME – LAST NAME – NEW SURNAME (…)
I am now panicking because I don't want to change anything else like my passport ( In EU it is ok to keep the maiden name on the passport for ever, it is true in USA as well ?) and I definitely don't want to change my SSN card and bank cards. I know I should have thought about it more before going back to change it only 1 week after our wedding but I didn't know there are so many things to take care of when we change name. So basically now I love having my husband's name for a sense of family and it's going to be better later on when kids come, but I am thinking..
DO I HAVE to change back to my maiden name ? Because in NYC they make it sound like the only option is to remarry ! But I don't want to remarry obviously, our marriage was perfect.
Can i keep the marriage certificate as is and don't change any other official document ? Can I apply for a GC with my maiden name ? Can we file taxes jointly although my name doesn't match the "new surname"?
I think this make sense because on the marriage certificate my Maiden name still appears right after my name ?
Thank you so much for your help !!
No, you do not.
They're likely referring to the easier process of changing your name through marriage as opposed to petitioning the court for a general adult name change.
Yes.
Yes.
Yes.
What's on your marriage certificate isn't binding. If you've changed your mind, then you can ignore what's specified on your certificate.
Valera, THANK YOU SO much for you reply ! This is very helpful and very reassuring ! All the best –
I have a 5 professional (IL state and federal) licenses as a nurse practitioner, and am recently married. If I hyphenate my last name, can I keep my professional licenses under my maiden name, and go by my married name outside of my profession/work?
Hi Tanya. Yes, it's a common approach. It's still a good idea to contact your state's Board of Nursing to confirm if there any potential complications to be aware of. Also, you'll want to get in touch with HR. Some places of employment will want their nurses' names to be on everything visible (e.g., badges, charts).
I have been married for 18 years. I took my husbands name. But I would like to go back to my madien name. Would I be able to change my drivers license if I had my birth certificate and marriage certificate
Hi Angie. That wouldn't be enough. You'll need to get a court order to restore your maiden name.
I got married 2 years ago. When I signed my name on the marriage certificate I signed using my maiden name. I haven't changes any of my documents, if I do could I use both names for example. Pam Brown-Clarke or do I have to go through some other procedure? Thanks.
Hi Petagaye. Yes, that's fine. That's a typical hyphenated change.
Hi, I had a question. The day my husband and I went to get our license to get married at the court they put down my maiden name and never asked me if I was gunna change my last name. Our certificate also has my maiden name but my husband and I never had to sign it or anything. Do I still have to go to SS and change my name or can I not change it? I was planning on keeping my maiden name and just adding his last name with a hypen but can I even do that since the certificate has my maiden name?
Name change is optional. You can choose not to change it.
Yes, you can.